11 Signs Of A Simple Man Who Doesn’t Overthink Deeply About Anything
Without ruminative thoughts to deal with, men are able to live a far more carefree life.
Krakenimages.com | Shutterstock People love to talk about the harm that overthinking can do, but many still find themselves unable to stop. Ruminating thoughts can lead to impulsive decisions, increased anxiety, and a constant feeling that you're not making the right decisions in life. Much of the time, these thoughts aren't rooted in valid concerns, but rather trouble being able to trust yourself. That said, there are definitely people out there who are able to maintain a peaceful view of life. When you meet a simple man who doesn't overthink deeply about anything, his behaviors and attitude let you know just how positive letting go of your worries can be.
These men simply go with the flow and don't allow their problems to dictate their lives. They face difficulties every just like everyone else, but they're able to acknowledge their thoughts without getting stuck on them and letting them ruin their lives or dictate the decisions they make. Men like this stay grounded by finding enjoyment in the littlest things that life has to offer, and there's something incredibly beautiful and touching when you see someone who is able to live life in that way.
These are 11 signs of a simple man who doesn't overthink deeply about anything
1. He's content with the present
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A simple man doesn't worry about what comes next. Instead, he enjoys every moment as it comes, the good and the bad. He feels satisfied with his life and knows that each moment is short-lived and should be treasured because you'll always look back and wish you could live in that time again.
He knows that as time goes on, life only gets more stressful and unpredictable, which means it's important to take every moment with a grain of salt because it's usually temporary.
"When we learn how to settle into the moment, we can awaken to how rich our life is now. In the present, we can find the enjoyment, connection, and meaning that we have been searching for all along. Getting better at 'being' can, in turn, enhance our experience of 'doing' things as we can feel more engaged and fulfilled in the process," explained clinical psychologist Angelica Attard, Psy.D.
2. He has an easy-going nature
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These types of men usually don't let things bother them. They allow things to roll off their backs because they're aware that it truly doesn't matter in the grand scheme of life. These men usually know how to stay calm in the face of a challenge and approach situations with the mindset that not everything can be controlled, and there's beauty in that.
"What’s certain is that when we brace against the challenges of life, fight with reality, reject our human vulnerability, rigidify our body and mind … when we do it that way, we strain other muscles, break other bones, and ultimately, we suffer, more than we have to," explained psychotherapist Nancy Colier, LCSW, Rev.
"Counterintuitively," she continued, "when we give ourselves the gift of relaxation, of softness, and acceptance; when we roll with not against our situation, we offer ourselves the smoothest ride possible on an inherently bumpy road."
3. He has straightforward communication
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Usually, people who overthink deeply about things struggle with being able to communicate directly with someone because they live in their heads and will jump to conclusions about a person's response before even speaking with them. Simple men don't have this problem because they know that being direct and straightforward will remove any confusion that someone will have.
This makes for more healthy relationships, because they're not living in their heads all of the time.
"Communication matters. Whether we are negotiating whose turn it is to feed the dog, how to become a parent, how to interact with a difficult co-worker, or how to celebrate with a friend who won a major award, it is in communication that we learn what to do and say," explained educator Dawn O. Braithwaite Ph.D.
4. He has a positive outlook on things
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Instead of looking for the bad in people and certain situations, simple men who don't overthink deeply about anything are able to see the good in most things they come across. They're not weighed down with trying to figure out what's broken or not working because they know the best way to solve a problem is to focus on what's working.
By having this mindset, they're able to move on from things instead of ruminating on them and letting them control their mood and actions.
"It’s inevitable that we will experience tough situations, both minor and big, during our lives. It’s essential that we carve out space to feel our feelings and grieve our losses before we consider moving on. But once we do that, it’s important that we do move on and adjust our lives to live in our new reality. This is how people overcome adversity and ultimately live a beautiful life," explained psychologist Robert Puff, Ph.D.
5. He's able to handle his emotions
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Simple men who don't overthink deeply about anything are able to express their emotions and work through them without the need to analyze every detail and seek validation from others. They're usually secure enough in their own identity and self-awareness to work through and process their feelings without outside noise.
These types of men move with honesty. They don't overreact over the smallest inconveniences or disappointments and will instead assess a problem calmly before making their next move.
"When we take the time to feel and understand our emotions, it can often lead to a more insightful outlook on life, better relationships, and improved physical health. Working through them and expressing them enables us to improve our mental and emotional health," pointed out therapist Jason N. Linder, Psy.D., LMFT.
6. He trusts his instincts
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Usually, simple men who don't overthink deeply about anything have a solid trust in themselves and are able to make clear decisions because of that. They're not caught up in the outside noise, and they don't let others influence their thoughts or perspectives because they know who they are and what matters to them.
Their decisions are often rooted in what feels good in the moment, and if it doesn't work out, they're able to adjust without spiraling and coming up with other scenarios.
"Trusting in yourself can be innate as well as harnessed and nurtured. Relying on knowledge and experience only you can define can help with small and big decisions and major actions or inaction in life," pointed out counseling psychologist Kisha Braithwaite, Ph.D., MSCR. "And although intuition should not be the only basis for which decisions are made, learning to trust your 'gut feelings' can be a useful tool and valuable complement to rational thinking and critical analysis."
7. He's able to have effortless relationships
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Since these types of men are able to not overthink, it's easier for them to nurture and have relationships that don't require much work. Simple men don't overanalyze things, nor do they create unnecessary drama or tension from reading into every action and word too deeply.
They're likely to not just assume the worst in someone or create problems in their relationships that don't exist. If there truly is a problem, they can approach it with the necessary communication and respect to mend any rifts.
8. He's low maintenance
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Simple men who don't overthink are usually incredibly low maintenance and don't require much from the people around them. This is usually because they're comfortable with themselves and don't need reassurance or validation from others.
They're self-sufficient and can usually figure things out on their own, but they will also accept help when it's offered. However, they don't rely on that help. These types of men find joy in the small things and can find happiness with the people in their lives without needing it to be an extravagant affair.
9. He has a good sense of humor
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For the most part, simple men who don't overthink deeply about anything are able to laugh at life's absurdities without taking it to heart. They find the joy and humor in every situation they're in because they know that life is not meant to be taken so seriously.
While they recognize the moments that do require them to be serious, they also know that it doesn't hurt to laugh and smile, even in the face of adversity. Having this perspective means they're able to stay resilient and not get bogged down by things that others would deem frustrating.
Because these men have a good sense of humor, they're able to lighten the mood of those around them as well, making them great people to be in company and community with.
10. He's patient
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This type of man is able to be incredibly patient with themselves and others around them because they understand that everything will happen at its own pace. They're not in a rush, and since they don't overthink, these men are able to have a natural and thoughtful approach to the things they do.
This patience allows them to act without making impulsive decisions or even letting frustration cloud their judgment. They simply take a deep breath, step back from a situation, and give things the time and space that they need in order to be resolved.
11. He doesn't hold grudges
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Simple men who don't overthink deeply about anything are usually able to practice forgiveness in a healthier way than men who overthink constantly. They don't hold grudges because they're able to let things go and move on without ruminating on them and letting them cloud every corner of their minds.
They're able to recognize that holding onto all of that hurt and anger will only weigh them down and block opportunities for growth. That doesn't mean they forget or excuse the hurts, but rather that they are able to create space for their own healing.
Nia Tipton is a staff writer with a bachelor's degree in creative writing and journalism who covers news and lifestyle topics that focus on psychology, relationships, and the human experience.
