10 Things A Good Man Won't Compromise On, No Matter What
If a man is truly a good one, he knows what is important won't risk it for anything.
oneinchpunch / Shutterstock Let's face it: there is a limited supply of good people in this world. With society struggling in the age of flexing on social media while ignoring people who are in need, people values and behaviors are becoming more and more questionable. That said, there are certain things a good man won't compromise on, no matter.
Yes, there are a select few good men left in this world, and when you meet one, you'll know by the way he treats others and the principles he stands firmly for. From his clear respect for others to own personal growth, a man who won't compromise what is most important to him is a man to be cherished and valued himself.
These are 10 things a good man won't compromise on, no matter what
1. His respect for others
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The first thing a good man won't compromise on, no matter what, is his respect for others. Truly good men will always remain respectful, even in the face of disrespect. Having the strength and discipline to restrain their emotional outbursts, good men keep a level head.
Psychologist Emma Seppälä Ph.D. explained that this is because people with high emotional intelligence take accountability for their emotions. "It requires being radically honest with yourself and understanding that your emotions are yours to process — not someone else’s fault," she said.
Despite this fact, remaining respectful when being disrespected isn't easy. Most men would simply allow their instincts to take over and say the first thing that's on their mind.
So, how do good men keep themselves level-headed? According to licensed therapist Annie Wright LMFT, people can engage in emotional regulation by engaging in mindfulness techniques like meditating or journaling.
2. His boundaries
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Let's face it: sticking to boundaries isn't easy. According to a survey from YouGov, 49% of Americans identify as people-pleasers. As a result, establishing and maintaining firm boundaries is difficult for the average person. Luckily, one of the things a good man won't compromise on, no matter what, is his boundaries.
Despite popular belief, good men aren't pushovers. Even if they are empathetic in nature, these men know how to reinforce boundaries in a calm and collected way. According to wellness expert Anna Dunn at NC State University, setting those boundaries is great as they help people achieve a more fulfilling life.
Even so, there will always be someone who feels the need to test or push other people's boundaries. However, it's important to remain firm within those boundaries and find ways to uphold those boundaries.
For some, this might mean simply walking away when others don't respect their boundaries. For others, repeating themselves is the best way to go. Regardless, good men stand their ground and don't allow anyone, not even their loved ones, to push them around.
3. His loyalty
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If there's one thing a good man won't compromise on, no matter what, it's his loyalty. Good men understand that having a great and reliable support system will always be their main focus.
A study published in Nature Mental Health found that the more social support systems a person has the lower the risk someone has of developing depression. Despite this fact, developing that support system isn't easy. With loneliness rates on the rise and people becoming more socially isolated, being loyal with no relationships isn't possible.
This is why it's so important that people learn to develop and expand their social circles in the first place. This can be done through joining organizations, signing up for classes, or simply utilizing their connections to connect with more people.
However, once good men have that social support system, they don't let it go. After all, they know just how rare it is to find authentic connections.
4. His personal growth
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Nobody should aspire to stay in the same place as they were years ago. As life continues, so should people's ability to evolve. This is why another thing a good man won't compromise on, no matter what, is his personal growth.
To truly grow as a person, men need to go through a deep stage of self-reflection. According to the National Center for Professional and & Research Ethics, self-reflection helps people become self-aware and gain control over the unconscious processes that drive their behavior.
Even so, changing and evolving as a person is far from easy. Like it or not, to truly grow as a person means to push their ego to the side and keep an open mind. Unfortunately, the ability to change and keep an open mind is something that most people, including men, struggle with. That said, good men push through that discomfort and find ways to actively challenge themselves and their thoughts every day.
5. His loved ones
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Everybody knows just how important loved ones are. After all, it's been said that the need for social connection is as great as people's need for water, food, and shelter. As a result, one thing a good man won't compromise on, no matter what, is his loved ones.
Good men understand that to feel understood and connected they must cherish and keep those that they love closest to them. Not only does this help them during times of hardships, but a study published in the Journal of Research in Personality found that feeling understood can also lead to greater life satisfaction.
Now, is keeping these relationships easy? Absolutely not! Like it or not, even good men will get into arguments with their parents, friends, or lovers that cause them to question their relationship. However, they remain committed and refuse to give up on those relationships simply because times are tough.
6. The promises he makes
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Another thing a good man won't compromise on, no matter what, is the promises he makes. Trust is a delicate balance that can quickly disappear if men aren't careful. And besides cheating or lying, a quick way to make someone distrust you is by breaking promises constantly.
As it stands, the more trust someone has in a good man, the more high-stakes it can get if that trust is eventually broken. This is why good men refuse to make promises unless they're absolutely sure they can keep them.
Even if it's inconvenient, saying, "I'll do my absolute best to make sure I get this done," leaves room for slip-ups and uncertainty. As a result, people are increasingly less likely to feel disappointed when the good man in question isn't able to deliver. After all, it was expected in the first place.
7. His work ethic
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Having a good work ethic is extremely important. Whether a man is a father, worker, or student, most of what he'll be judged on related to the actions he does or doesn't take. As a result, one thing a good man won't compromise on, no matter what, is his work ethic.
Whether people want to admit it or not, the amount of work men put into what they do can either make or break their reputation. If a man is lazy and has poor work ethic, not only will he be viewed as unreliable, but he might lose out on important opportunities.
On the flip side, having a strong work ethic shows that a man is both reliable and consistent, all of which will lead to greater opportunities and better relationships.
8. His values
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If you want to know who someone is. take a look at their values. A man's value system can reveal who he is at his core. For instance, whether or not he values forgiveness or discipline directly impacts the way he functions in his day-to-day life.
While many men will also compromise those values depending on the situation, one of the things a good man won't compromise on, no matter what, are his values.
Yes, there are men who will throw their values away just for a leg up in either their career or relationships. Despite this, there are men out there who won't compromise those values, even if it puts them at a disadvantage. And although it might be tough at times, sticking with those values shows just how upstanding that man is when life gets tough.
9. His kindness
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Most people are way too cautious to be kind and respectful in this world. With dangerous news stories hitting people's news and social media feeds every day, is it any wonder why kindness has all but disappeared from society?
Thankfully, another thing a good man won't compromise on, no matter what, is his kindness. Truly good men will always remain gracious regardless of who they're with. Whether it's a complete stranger or their best friend, all people are treated with the same level of kindness.
Research published in 2023 found that being kind increases happiness for both the giver and receiver. Knowing this, going out of their way to help a stranger shouldn't be something that people avoid. As long as it is safe to do so, carrying grocery bags, lending a hand with a heavy object, or paying it forward, doesn't automatically spell a recipe for disaster.
As a matter of fact, truly being gracious and kind to others might benefit men more than they think.
10. His humility
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Finally, the last thing a good man won't compromise on, no matter what, is his humility. How many times have people seen men who were overly confident for their own good? Never able to give credit where credit is due, these men unconsciously caused those around them to all but run away.
Nobody likes a man who refuses to acknowledge or recognize their effort, whereas a study published in 2023 found that simply being appreciated for your efforts has a significant positive impact. As a result, good men who keep their humility intact have a far better time maintaining relationships and being more well-liked than arrogant men do.
All things considered, it's better to take inspiration from a good man and find ways to keep their humility intact. Not only does it make men look better to others, but it has direct benefits for themselves as well.
Marielisa Reyes is a writer with a bachelor's degree in psychology who covers self-help, relationships, career, family, and astrology topics.