Mother Confronts Another Mom For Sending Her Daughter Home For Cursing At Her House
Many moms online said they would do the same.
Marian Fil | Shutterstock A mother was thoroughly upset when she discovered her daughter in tears, having been sent home by her friend's mom.
She later confronted the other mom while recording a video and received an unexpected reaction from viewers, who, as a whole, sided with the other mom.
The mother confronted another mom for sending her daughter home for cursing at her house.
Ashley Vlaz documented the confrontation on TikTok as she questioned another mom in the neighborhood for making her daughter, Ameliya, cry. When Vlaz approached her, the other mom was sitting on her porch with three of her kids, one of whom was a friend of Ameliya’s.
“My child is literally at home crying,” Vlaz said to her. “Who do you think you are sending her home?”
The mom looked bewildered, asking why Ameliya was crying. “Probably because you told her that I’m a bad mom for letting her put on makeup,” Vlaz replied, adding that her daughter also claimed the mom told her she should be punished for the way she talks.
The other mom insisted that she never said such things. Rather, she told Ameliya that her kids are not allowed to wear makeup or curse in her house.
Vlaz agreed that her daughter should not have cursed but doubled down on her confrontation. “You send my daughter home, and she’s outside playing,” Vlaz argued. “You don’t own the neighborhood.”
“I didn’t send her home; I sent her off away from my house,” the mom explained calmly.
Vlaz concluded her argument, stating they should keep their daughters away from each other moving forward, which the other mom agreed was a “good idea.” The mom then stood up and grabbed her kids as they returned inside, saying she wasn’t going to “deal” with Vlaz’s immature behavior anymore.
Most commenters sided with the other mom, insisting her concerns and responses were reasonable.
They admired the mom for maintaining her composure while being confronted aggressively on camera. They also agreed with her refusal to allow another child to influence her kids with offensive language in her home.
“Mom behind the camera needs to take notes from the mother that’s parenting,” one user wrote. “You should have apologized and went home and given [your daughter] an attitude adjustment!” another commenter insisted.
While there’s a line moms should avoid crossing when it comes to parenting other kids, the mom in question had every right to request Ameliya leave her house for her disrespectful behavior.
It’s also natural for Vlaz to be upset after finding her daughter crying, but rather than emotionally reacting and accusing the other mom, she should have handled the situation more calmly and maturely.
The mother of the swearing little girl must teach her daughter the importance of manners and respect for others.
Based on Vlaz’s other content, her daughter Ameliya seems to behave disrespectfully toward their neighbors frequently, causing them to impatiently kick her off of their property. When this happens, Vlaz confronts the neighbors on camera but usually discovers Ameliya’s misbehavior is responsible.
Vlaz has also admitted that her daughter lacks respect, even towards herself. She shared multiple TikToks revealing Ameliya’s unapologetic disrespectful behavior, which her dad tends to enable and laugh off.
It seems this young girl's parents need to teach her to respect others, as their current parenting approach will only create an entitlement in their daughter for years to come.
Experts suggest teaching a child to show respect by offering them "concrete solutions" and "tips they can practice and learn over time to apply to their lives." This includes working on self-regulation, encouraging them to put themselves in other people's shoes, and reminding them to pause before acting out.
Francesca Duarte is a writer on YourTango's news and entertainment team based in Orlando, FL. She covers lifestyle, human-interest, adventure, and spirituality topics.