A Man's Elderly Neighbor Keeps Complaining About His Christmas Lights — Until He Figures Out The Real Reason She Keeps Coming Over
Check in on those who live alone this holiday season.
Ryzhkov Oleksandr, Pressmaster / Shutterstock One evening, a man heard a knock at his door and discovered his elderly neighbor on his porch. She claimed that she stopped by to raise her concerns about his Christmas lights.
However, the man quickly caught on that the real reason for her visit was not about the lights.
The man’s elderly neighbor came over to complain about his Christmas lights just so she could have a conversation with someone.
In a TikTok video that garnered over 10 million views, a man’s Ring camera captured a sour-turned-sweet interaction between himself and his elderly neighbor.
Upon opening the door for her, she did not appear too thrilled. “Can you turn those lights off?” the woman asked her neighbor, referring to his outdoor Christmas lights.
According to the woman, the lights kept her awake at night since she could see them through her windows. It was a conversation that the man knew all too well, as it had apparently happened many times before.
“We went through this before, sweetheart,” he reminded his neighbor, adding that after their last interaction regarding his Christmas lights, the police came by and confirmed that the lights in question could not be seen through the woman’s bedroom window.
However, he was kind enough to promise her that he would turn off the lights by 10 p.m. so that she could hopefully rest better. To the man’s surprise, the woman apologized to him in response. “I don’t mean to be a mean neighbor,” she said. "I want you as my neighbor."
At this point, he cracked the code as to why she continued to show up at his doorstep to complain about his Christmas lights. “I think you just need to come over when you’re lonely,” the man said to his neighbor. He graciously offered to have her over for dinner and wine and reminded her that she was always welcome to stop by and chat.
Upon hearing his kind offer, the woman pressed her palms to her cheeks and once again apologized, mortified by her behavior. The man just laughed, reassuring her that it was all okay.
The man’s actions deeply moved others.
“What a good man. He realized it wasn't about the lights," one TikTok user commented. "That lady may not have anyone else and is just reaching out in her own way." “She obviously feels safe with him. To actually go outside at night to his door, broke my heart. He is so precious,” another user noted. “She is lonely. Make her day and have some food with her and a chat. She is precious,” a third user wrote.
While the holidays are a joyous and exciting time for some people, it is incredibly lonely for others.
Many people do not have a close network of family and friends to spend the holidays with. A 2017 study found that 31 percent of adults have felt lonely during the holiday season.
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While the Christmas lights may not have been keeping the elderly woman awake at night, they likely served as a reminder that the holidays were quickly approaching and that she would be spending them alone.
Loneliness during a festive season is a feeling that one wants to experience. Thankfully, acts of kindness, like the one the man demonstrated to his neighbor in the video, can give those who are lonely a bit of brightness to their days.
The holidays are an opportunity to foster a sense of community. Not only are the man and elderly woman neighbors, but they will hopefully soon become close-knit friends. And it all began over a Christmas light debacle that was never about the lights.
Megan Quinn is a writer at YourTango who covers entertainment and news, self, love, and relationships.