His Secret Sexual Fantasy, Based On His Zodiac Sign
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Women aren’t the only ones who have sexual fantasies — men have them too. Sexual fantasies help to enrich our sex lives and make them healthy and satisfying. Even your horoscope can reassure you of that.
There are so many positives to having a sexual fantasy: it can help one to cope with the various emotional stresses they may have, especially regarding sex; it can make one feel less inhibited; it can make one feel more attractive and enhance their sexual self-confidence; it can increase sexual interest overall.
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The best thing about a sexual fantasy is that you don’t need to buy any special equipment; all you need to do is tap into your imagination. Sometimes we feel embarrassed by our sexual fantasies, but no matter how “out there” they may be, as long as no one gets hurt, anything goes.
There are times when we hold back from expressing our fantasies to our partners as if they’ll judge us harshly. When you don’t share your fantasy with your partner, you do them a disservice.
They want to please you and if accessing a fantasy would help, of course, they’d want to know. Who knows, they may share the same fantasy that you have. It’s beyond fantastic when you start acting out a fantasy and your partner instinctively knows exactly what to do.
Some fantasies are easier to recreate than others. If your fantasy is to have sex with four sex robots at once while on Saturn, you’re probably going to have to rely mostly on your imagination.
But astrology is often helpful in trying to figure out someone’s sexual fantasies. The stars know the secret desires of each sign of the zodiac. Here’s what each zodiac sign fantasizes about and his secret sexual fantasy.
ARIES (March 21 - April 19)
Aries is all about more, more, more, so, of course, his fantasy involves lots of people, doing all kinds of things to him. In other words, the ultimate stimulation fest. The more there is, the less likely he'll get bored and sex will stay exciting for him.
Read: The 13 Brutal Truths About Loving An Aries, As Written By One
TAURUS (April 20 - May 20)
Taurus fantasizes about having a sex slave, someone who will do their bidding with no questions asked. He doesn't want to have to work for his pleasure and would love to have someone whose job it was to make sure that all his wants and needs were taken care of. Taurus wants to be indulged while still being lazy.
Read: The 5 Brutal Truths About Loving A Taurus, As Written By One
GEMINI (May 21 - June 20)
Gemini fantasizes about doing some role play scenarios where he can express the dual sides to his personality. He fantasizes about the joining of sex with silly fun, like dressing as clowns and sitting on cakes or wrestling in jello.
Read: The 13 Brutal Truths About Loving A Gemini, As Written By One
CANCER (June 21 - July 22)
Cancers are very sensual and romantic but their sexual fantasies are generally about their partner doing things they normally would not do. If their partner isn't into anal, then that's going to be the central focus of Cancer's fantasy.
Read: The 5 Brutal Truths About Loving A Cancer, As Written By One
LEO (July 23 - August 22)
Leo fantasizes about being on stage in front of a crowd masturbating. He wants to have all eyes on him while he pleasures himself and pictures other people getting turned on by looking at him jerking off. Sometimes he fantasizes about having sex in a room of mirrors so he could see himself at every angle.
Read: 6 Brutal Truths About Loving A Leo, As Written By One
VIRGO (August 23 - September 22)
Fetishes feature heavily in Virgo's fantasies. Maybe it's having his toes sucked, wearing ladies' panties or having his face buried in large breasts; his fantasies tend to not be things that he enjoys in his everyday life. He wants extreme kinks, outrageous fetishes, and wild scenarios.
Read: 7 Brutal Truths About Loving A Virgo (As Written By A Virgo)
LIBRA (September 23 - October 22)
Libra fantasizes about two (or more) women having sex in front of him, or coming across two people having sex. Voyeurism of any kind excites him, so any kind of watching or hearing someone have sex is fantasy material.
Read: 11 Brutal Truths About Loving A Libra, As Written By One
SCORPIO (October 23 - November 21)
Scorpio fantasizes about being the ultimate lover and pictures how with just one touch he can bring his partner to orgasm. He sometimes fantasizes about previous lovers and encounters and does almost a play by play in his head about what worked and what didn't.
Read: 14 Brutal Truths About Loving A Scorpio, As Written By One
SAGITTARIUS (November 22 - December 21)
Sagittarius fantasizes about sex in public places and exotic locations — definitely in the bathroom of a plane or on a beach in the Bahamas. He's all about adventure and travel and can picture meeting someone, having spontaneous sex, and things ending without them ever exchanging names.
Read: 7 Brutal Truths About Loving A Sagittarius, As Written By One
CAPRICORN (December 22 - January 19)
Capricorn fantasizes about being dominated as it's the opposite of his everyday life. He thinks about being tied up, spanked, teased, and verbally abused. Sometimes he fantasizes about being pegged.
Read: 7 Brutal Truths About Loving A Capricorn, As Written By One
AQUARIUS (January 20 - February 18)
Aquarius fantasizes about inventing strange and unusual sex toys and trying them out. He also fantasizes about coming up with new positions that have never been done before. He loves to experiment and new technology, so there'd probably be some virtual reality sex in his fantasies as well.
Read: 7 Brutal Truths About Loving An Aquarius, As Written By One
PISCES (February 19 - March 20)
Pisces fantasizes about very creative sex such as smearing paint all over the body of his lover and himself, having sex on a white canvas and then seeing what kind of picture they'd paint. He fantasizes about touching and kissing for hours until not being able to stand it anymore and having wild sex.
Read: 7 Brutal Truths About Loving A Pisces, As Written By One
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