How To Give Your Partner An EMOTIONAL Orgasm, Based On Your Zodiac Sign
It's the feeling you get when everything comes together in just the right way.
weheartit Life should be full of orgasms — and not just the sexual kind. And no matter how important your horoscope tells you sexual orgasms are, emotional orgasms are just so much better.
An emotional orgasm is that feeling that you get when you reach the height of satisfaction, feel completely connected to another human being and are in a moment of pure bliss. Emotional orgasms are most likely to happen when you’re totally in the moment, woke, and engaged. You can’t experience them when you’re asleep and unaware.
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Emotional orgasms are described as “electric,” “joy,” “power”, “a wave of pleasure,” “a sense of incredible peace,” “everything right in that moment,” “clarity and focus,” “being part of something bigger,” and “the reason why we’re here.” You can understand why people think of emotional orgasms as that “Wow” feeling in life.
An emotional orgasm shouldn't be a one time shot; instead, our lives should be full of these moments. They can happen with your partner, someone you know or even someone you just met — there are no limitations for when they can happen. They are the “Oh, yes!” moments in our lives where everything seems to come together, and you feel that everything is right and how it should be.
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When our lives are full of emotional orgasms, we’re able to fight off negative feelings like anger, loneliness, and feelings of failure. It’s that appreciation of small moments and knowing that there is so much wonder and beauty in our lives to focus on.
If you’re happier, the relationships in your life are improved whether it be with a partner, a parent, a sibling, a co-worker, or even strangers. You radiate an enthusiasm that people respond to in a positive way.
One of the best things about emotional orgasms is that they’re not difficult to achieve. How do you give your partner an emotional orgasm? Here's what each zodiac sign does to accomplish this.
ARIES (March 21 - April 19)
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Teach them to not take life so seriously. Not everything in life is fun, but when you try, you can look for the fun in the routine or responsibility. Not everything has to be perfect; sometimes it's okay to let the bed go unmade or take a sick day off work to go to the beach. Sometimes you just need a personal day to relax and regroup. Having a good time with your partner can lead to many emotional orgasms and can strengthen the bond between you.
Read: The 13 Brutal Truths About Loving An Aries, As Written By One
TAURUS (April 20 - May 20)
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Pamper him and show him it's good to indulge in his guilty pleasures. So often, people are consumed by being "good" and having discipline. But you know the value of pampering yourself from time to time. Treat your partner to a massage or buy him that watch he's had his eyes on. Being good to each other and yourselves is a good way to experience an emotional orgasm.
Read: The 5 Brutal Truths About Loving A Taurus, As Written By One
GEMINI (May 21 - June 20)
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Listen. This may seem so simple and obvious but a lot of the time, we get caught up in our own drama and lives that we don't take the time just to listen quietly to our partners. Try to sense if they're looking for advice or if they just need you to really hear what they have to say. When you really listen to your partner, you validate both them and their feelings. You'll be surprised at the positive effect your listening will have with your partner.
Read: The 13 Brutal Truths About Loving A Gemini, As Written By One
CANCER (June 21 - July 22)
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You need to talk about your emotions, so showing your partner how to verbalize their feelings is of great importance. When they feel comfortable enough to talk about what they feel and to let out all that pent up negative energy, they're more receptive to having an emotional orgasm. Sometimes it just feels so good to get it off your chest and to deal with those feelings rather than stuffing them down.
Read: The 5 Brutal Truths About Loving A Cancer, As Written By One
LEO (July 23 - August 22)
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Compliment and praise your partner. Positive affirmations are how you can give your partner an emotional orgasm and will lighten your partner's spirits and help them to feel confident and loved. Match the amount of praise with the task or the topic; if you overpraise them for something, it will make it feel false and untrue. Try to say something positive to them at least once a day.
Read: 6 Brutal Truths About Loving A Leo, As Written By One
VIRGO (August 23 - September 22)
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Let your partner know that you appreciate them and that you're grateful to have them in your life. Too often we take our partners and the things they do for us for granted, but we all like to feel truly cherished by our loved ones. You don't need to do a grand gesture or anything over the top, sometimes just a simple thank you will do.
Read: 7 Brutal Truths About Loving A Virgo (As Written By A Virgo)
LIBRA (September 23 - October 22)
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Be your partner's advocate and fight for them. There's nothing like the feeling that you're being supported and that you've got someone watching your back. It makes us feel brave and as if there's no challenge we can't face when we feel as if we've got someone on our side and that we're not alone. It's terrible to be in a relationship but feel as if you're alone to fight your battles.
Read: 11 Brutal Truths About Loving A Libra, As Written By One
SCORPIO (October 23 - November 21)
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Don't use sex as a way to get what you want. Sex is great but using it as a method of manipulation isn't the right choice. Try to communicate directly and telling your partner what you want without playing games. Sex is a way to create intimacy and so is being honest and open about your needs.
Read: 14 Brutal Truths About Loving A Scorpio, As Written By One
SAGITTARIUS (November 22 - December 21)
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Don't tell them what to do, especially if it involves a commitment of any kind. A Sagittarian doesn't do well when they think they're being nagged or bossed around. You want your partner to be happy, not to want to bolt. They can think for themselves and decide on what are the appropriate actions they should take. When they're allowed to do what they want to do, they'll do it on their own.
Read: 7 Brutal Truths About Loving A Sagittarius, As Written By One
CAPRICORN (December 22 - January 19)
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You should be the one to initiate sex sometimes. Physical orgasms do a body good just like emotional orgasms do your heart good. Don't always rely on your partner to seduce you; turn the tables and jump on them. Surprise them by mixing up the schedule a little. If normally Thursday is your sex night, suggest a quickie on Monday night. Mix it up and show a different side to your sexual nature.
Read: 7 Brutal Truths About Loving A Capricorn, As Written By One
AQUARIUS (January 20 - February 18)
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Let your partner know that you accept and adore them — all of them. We all have qualities that we don't want to share with others, parts of ourselves that we think are odd or unattractive. When your partner knows that they can truly be themselves and that not only won't you judge them but you love every part of them, they'll feel safe. It takes a lot of energy to hide our true selves so when we can just be, we're able to experience an emotional orgasm.
Read: 7 Brutal Truths About Loving An Aquarius, As Written By One
PISCES (February 19 - March 20)
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When your partner makes a mistake, don't criticize them. Help them to figure out what went wrong and how they might be able to fix the problem. Create the circumstance that will allow you to have a "Wow" moment together. When you inspire each other, it frees up your creativity and allows for some major emotional release.
Read: 7 Brutal Truths About Loving A Pisces, As Written By One
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Christine Schoenwald is a writer, performer, and teacher who loves writing and performing personal narratives. She's had pieces in The Los Angeles Times, Salon, Woman's Day, Purple Clover, Bustle, and is a regular contributor to Ravishly and YourTango. Check out her website or her Facebook page.