The Pros And Cons Of Falling For Him, According To Your Zodiac Sign

Why do we like astrology? Astrology isn't exact and there's no scientific basis for it. You can't prove anything in astrology but there are certain truths that seem to pop up. There's no scientific basis for astrology as it's an art, not a science. I like to think of it as intuitiveness with assistance. Astrology isn't rational, but is completely changeable and flips the script without notice.

But astrology does help us to make sense of the world, and it helps us to feel as if everything isn't completely random.

While the direction and advice that astrology can give us isn't literal — it doesn't say, "Go to the park, sit on the bench next to the pond and you'll meet your life partner" — it does give our thinking a starting point. Astrology can make us think of things we never would consider, and helps us to look at things from other perspectives and angles.

If one is open to it, astrology can be very revelatory. You have to participate and be open to what it can teach you. Sometimes we just want confirmation of what our instincts are telling us, and astrology helps us to listen to our own inner voices. There are times when we just need validation that what we're feeling is on the right track, and astrology can do that.

When we're faced with a major choice, we need every resource we can get. With love, there are many of these kinds of decisions that can change our lives significantly. Do you want to date someone, is it OK if there aren't any strings, or should you consider them for a long-term relationship?

A good way to get a clearer picture for any kind of momentous decision is to do a pros and cons list. Here are pros and cons of falling for him, according to your zodiac sign.

Aries (March 21 - April 19)

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Pros: If you're an Aries, you'll fall for someone who is as brash, bold, and adventurous like you. He'll be athletic, exceedingly male, and someone who is up for any challenge.

Cons: He may actually be too competitive, and that could backfire if you want him to fight for you or if you want to win sometimes.

Read: The 13 Brutal Truths About Loving An Aries, As Written By One

Taurus (April 20 - May 20)

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Pros: As a Taurus, the chances are good that you're falling for someone who is strong-willed yet sensual, and is very down-to-earth. He also enjoys the finer things in life and will indulge your every pleasure.

Cons: Normally you're exceptionally loyal, but if you don't think your guy is giving you everything you want and deserve, you may find him lacking. Also, if he's as demanding as you are, that's a definite con.

Read: The 5 Brutal Truths About Loving A Taurus, As Written By One

Gemini (May 21 - June 20)

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Pros: Since you're a Gemini, you're probably falling in love with someone who is as bright, funny, and talkative as you are. You love the way he's so entertaining and how he keeps you guessing.

Cons: Yeah, your guy seems great but what if, ultimately, he can't keep your interest? What if that whole rom-com banter thing you've got going on sizzles out, or even worse, what if his verbal flirting is actually just part of his game and he'll leave you in the end?

Read: The 13 Brutal Truths About Loving A Gemini, As Written By One

Cancer (June 21 - July 22)

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Pros: You're super-sensitive, and you love how this guy gives you his full attention. He also loves good food and good conversation like you do, and gives you a feeling of security.

Cons: The problem is that sometimes, Cancer gets the tiniest feeling that this guy is being patronizing, and you hate that. Is he really giving you his full attention or is he just pretending and really thinking about what his day looks like tomorrow?

Read: The 5 Brutal Truths About Loving A Cancer, As Written By One

Leo (July 23 - August 22)

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Pros: Leo is confident, charismatic, and radiates warmth. He's generous, and even better he's a creative type who loves actors, artists, and musicians.

Cons: This guy has criticized you before, and even worse, you've caught him in a lie before. You can handle whatever truth he needs to throw at you, but a lie usually means bye-bye.

Read: 6 Brutal Truths About Loving A Leo, As Written By One

Virgo (August 23 - September 22)

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Pros: Virgo adores men who are practical, reliable, intelligent, and have great social skills. And this guy is all that and more. 

Cons: Red flag! This guy isn't great as far as grooming, hygiene, and style go. He doesn't even seem to own a comb and no one would ever say his fashion sense is on point.

Read: 7 Brutal Truths About Loving A Virgo (As Written By A Virgo)

Libra (September 23 - October 22)

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Pros: As a Libra, you're attracted to a man who is good-looking, well-spoken, and someone who appreciates culture and the arts. This guy has all those qualities; you practically can't help but fall for him.

Cons: Libras, like Leos, aren't that great with honest let alone harsh criticism. Although this guy thought he was helping you with some constructive criticism, you took it as a slam.

Read: 11 Brutal Truths About Loving A Libra, As Written By One

Scorpio (October 23 - November 21)

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Pros: This guy has everything you love about yourself: he's secretive, intense, and positively smolders with passion and sexuality. He also seems to be as strong-willed and controlling as you are.

Cons: See above. He's as controlling and strong-willed as you are, Scorpio, and it's pretty clear that if your relationship were to become long-term, there'd be many power struggles in your future.

Read: 14 Brutal Truths About Loving A Scorpio, As Written By One

Sagittarius (November 22 - December 21)

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Pros: Sagittarius loves that not only does this guy have a great sense of humor, but he gets your brand of humor, too. You appreciate how he lives his life with honesty, integrity and spirituality.

Cons: He says he's always up to go out and do something fun, but usually when it comes down to it, he just wants to stay home and watch TV.

Read: 7 Brutal Truths About Loving A Sagittarius, As Written By One

Capricorn (December 22 - January 19)

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Pros: This guy is so cute, especially when he broke out the good china and made you a fantastic dinner at his place. Let's be honest: his wealth, status, and power are pretty attractive, too.

Cons: It's OK for you to be a workaholic, Capricorn, but do you really want your man to be one, too? You also get the feeling that he's not always being real with you, and you can't stand fakes.

Read: 7 Brutal Truths About Loving A Capricorn, As Written By One

Aquarius (January 20 - February 18)

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Pros: Admit it! You're attracted to men who are interesting, open-minded and unpredictable, and this guy is all that. You can't get enough of how mentally stimulating this guy is, and in such original ways.

Cons: If it had only happened one time, maybe you could overlook it and not put it on the con side of the list, but he's told you "no" more than once. When someone tells you "no," Aquarius, it makes you feel the rage of a thousand suns. 

Read: 7 Brutal Truths About Loving An Aquarius, As Written By One

Pisces (February 19 - March 20)

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Pros: Pisces can't resist a man who can talk about his feelings and be thoughtful. You're falling for a guy who is exactly that: conscientious towards feelings. You love how soft-spoken and gentle he is with you.

Cons: Not only has your potential love interest walked away from an argument, but he seems to have a problem with different points of view and giving people the benefit of the doubt. You doubt that this relationship will ultimately work.

Read: 7 Brutal Truths About Loving A Pisces, As Written By One