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Here Are Your Hot Topics for November 15, 2024

1. What One Legendary Couples Therapist Can Learn About Your Relationship's Future In Just 3 Minutes

(note: this is from a video of Julie Gottman talking about 'contempt' and how important the first 3 minutes of a conflict are - and why. Julie shares 4 (or so) ways contempt shows through in relationships and a few examples of why it's so harmful - we'd like someone to cover all of this and you can quote from and refer to the video, as well. Julie talks about this at the 3:00 mark, but the whole video is helpful: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=TgHqJk5NnB4)

 

2. Interpersonal (or Social) Situations People With The Highest EQs Do Their Best To Avoid
 

3. How To Find Time To Maintain Your Friendships When You're Busy Adult-ing
 

4. 10 Things People Say When They're In Love, But They Don't Really Mean

Please note: The numbers in these articles are placeholders, but we would like lists with more than 5 list items if possible. If you can only think of a few, let me (Joanna) know and we can work it out! :)

Also note: We have found the articles that get the most reads on them have short introductions - one or two paragraphs. If you want to editorialize or add context, it's best to do that in the list items or after.If you have any questions, please email Joanna. She is happy to help! 


 (Please feel free to use a different number in any of these articles, the numbers we used here are just for example!)

New Hot Topics every week!

 

More truly exceptional Expert Hot Topic ideas:

TK Life-Defining Choices Women Face In Their 20s - That Set The Tone For Their Entire Future

The TK Skills Spiritually-Gifted People Use To Interpret The Universe's Most Powerful Messages

(not just naming the clairs, etc, but also simple things like meditation, prayer, sitting in nature, etc - Joanna can help you brainstorm if you want this one!)

Is It True That Men Never Get Over Their First Love?

(a viral TikTok trend insists this is true - lots of young men are confirming they have this experience ... what insights can we add to this? Why do they feel this way? Is it that they regret 'the one that got away, like this creator says, or is there something deeper here. Also touch on how lovely it is to see young men who are comfortable talking about heartbreak and feelings like this!)

TK Signs A Man Is Not Ready To Be A Dad - Even If He Says He Is

Road Rage Is On The Rise: TK Expert Tips For Preventing An Emotional Blowout

(they need to be things you can do while driving - plus maybe a few that you can do before or after to help prevent them, if you want - here is a news story to reference 

The Surprisingly Simple Psychology of Teaching Kids To Believe In Themselves

The Unique Pain of Being 'The Favorite Child' & How To Heal, Forgive and Move On  www.bbc.com/future/article/20230809-the-lifelong-effects-of-the-favourite-child

TK Unusual Habits That Indicate A High Level Of Emotional Sensitivity In Adults

5 Ways To Know If You're In Love With Someone Who Isn't Your Spouse Or Simply Stuck In 'Affair Fog'

5 Relationship Skills Millennials Excel At, Like No Generation Before

5 Relationship Skills Gen Z Excels At, Like No Generation Before

5 Unique Skills Therapists Of Color Offer Their Clients (& Why They Matter)

What It Means If You Never, Ever Fight In Your Relationship (Gottmans noted that tension and discord are measurable in relationships even when words aren't spoken, and a lack of fighting doesn't mean a lack of conflict)

10 Things Husbands Do Without Knowing It That Cause Wives To Mistrust Them

5 New Spiritual Tools That Can Help You Find Your Life's Purpose

5 Ways to Keep Yourself Motivated So You Can Continue Supporting The People You Love

6 Little Things Men Do That Make Women Not Trust Them

Emotionally Intelligent People Avoid These 6 Types Of People At All Costs (And Are Happier As A Result)

5 Old-Fashioned Marriage Traditions That Are Still Necessary (& 5 That Need To Go Away For Good)

10 Tiny Changes To Make In Your Romantic Relationship For A 10x Stronger Connection

10 Low-Key Signs A Man Isn't As Confident As He Seems On The Surface

— 11 Signs Someone Is Destined To Be In Your Life Forever

— 12 Signs You're More Empathic Than The Average Person

7 'Superpowers' Of Adults Who Struggled In School When They Were Kids

7 Signs You've Met The Love Of Your Life -- And Never Even Realized It

5 Things You Can Do As A Couple To Overcome Hurt From The Past & Forgive One Another

5 Things Parents Say On Purpose To Make Their Kids Obedient -- That Backfire In The End

9 Phrases A Husband Or Wife Can Say To Subtly Boost Their Spouse's Self-Confidence

People Who Experienced Anxiety As Kids Develop These 7 Extraordinary Traits As Adults

10 Unusual Behaviors That Can Make The Right Person Fall In Love With You

TK Ways To Become A 'Visionary' Whose First Instincts Are (Pretty Much) Always Right

TK Ways To Manifest Your Most Powerful Healing Energy -- No 'Magic' Required

Therapist Shares 3 Phrases That Shut Manipulative People Down Fast

15 Phrases You Will Never Hear A Healthy, Supportive Boyfriend Say

5 Subtle 'Tells' Of People With Bad Intentions (Who Only Want To Use You)

3 'Mental Muscles' To Develop Before You Get Back Into A Relationship After Having Your Heart Broken

New Study Proves What Betrayed Wives Already Knew About Cheating

Signs A Good Friend Is Not Looking Out For Your Best Interests & It's Time To Move On

Questions To Ask Someone Before You Break Up With Them (To Make Sure You're Doing The Right Thing)

(note: we would like this to be a list of questions to help someone be reflective upon their own responsibilities in the relationship, as well as to be sure they understand their partner's goals/perspectives that may seem like "dealbreakers" before breaking up due to them)

How To Know If You Should Break Up Before Going To College

How To Prepare For The 5 Biggest Disappointments Of Retirement

How To Ask For A Raise & The 3 Step Process For Figuring Out How Much

There's Actually Nothing Wrong With Gen Z, And Who One Therapist Blames Instead

What Grandmothers Do Differently Today That Annoys Their Daughters & Daughters-In-Law & How To Rein It In

TK Signs The Universe Has A Message For You -- And How To Open Up And Finally Hear It

— 10 Subtle Behaviors That Help Your Kids Feel Loved & Secure

— 5 Things To Say Instead Of Just 'I'm Sorry' When You've Made A Huge Mistake (edited)

— Women Who Accept This Brutal Reality End Up Happier Than Everyone Around Them

— TK Sweet Ways To Show Your Wife That She's Your #1 Priority

— If Your Child Does These 5 Things, They Feel Securely Attached To You

— The 5 'Golden Rules' For Feeling Good About Your Body During the Summer

— The Common Anti-Stress Advice That Often Makes Anxiety Worse

— TK Ways 'Unloved Daughters' Can Reclaim Their Power

— 5 Quirky Traits Of Couples Who Last A Lifetime, That Others May Think Are Weird

— 15+ Tiny Reasons Your Relationship Will Last (While Others Fall Apart)

— The Romantic Gesture A Good Man Will Never Make (And Smart Women Should Avoid)

— TK Ways To Keep Your Sanity AND Your High-Stress Job

— TK Common Behaviors Of Men / Women Raised By Narcissists

— TK Signs Your Partner Isn't Taking Good Care Of Himself

— TK Genius Phrases To Use With Teens, Bosses, or Siblings When They're Irritable

— TK Ways The Best Husbands Show Up For Their Stressed-Out, Burnt-Out Wives

— TK Ways To Get Comfortable With Being Truly, Genuinely Loved

Bosses Go Wild For Employees With These TK Skills

— The Tiny Psychological Trick Used Every Day By People Who Are Easy To Love

— What Deeply Spiritual People Wish Others Would Stop Saying To Them

— The Sad Reasons Men Retreat When Their Wives Get Sick Or Need Help

— TK Little Things To Try If You're Ready To Level-Up Your Taste In Romantic Partners
 

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If your Hot Topic is chosen to be edited and promoted by the editorial team, you will be notified with suggestions to share it far and wide so everyone can find it/read it. Edits are limited to content, typos, SEO help, image changes, and clarity.

If your article requires major edits, or if multiple Experts select the same Hot Topic, we may not promote yours due to time constraints.

Don't worry, though!

If we receive multiple amazing submissions, we will do our best to publish both. In these instances, the first submission received will be edited with the original Hot Topics headline, and the additional submissions will be held slightly and given a modified headline in order to avoid publishing two articles that would essentially compete with each other.

 

Here's a look at a Hot Topic success from the past!

The One Sign I See In My Practice That Indicates A Marriage Is Going To Last by Expert Jean Walters: 275,000 pageviews

5 Little Ways Men Wish They Could be Loved — Every Single Day by Mitzi Bockmann: 180,000 pageviews

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