12 Powerful Soulmate Messages Your Kindred Spirit Sends Before You Even Meet
Here's how you can prepare yourself for your soulmate.
EpicStockMedia And Lekcej From Getty Images Both Via Canva Pro It's hard to stay positive when it so often feels that the universe is on a mission to keep you and your soulmate apart. Knowing that your kindred spirit is out there and that you two will be together is the first step in getting closer to actually being together.
To help you stay positive, excited, and hopeful for your soulmate's arrival in the meantime, there are some things your twin flame wants you to know now, before you even meet.
The 12 soulmate messages your kindred spirit wants to send before you even meet, according to a spiritual psychologist:
1. "To me, you are perfect just as you are."
You are worthy to be loved. You are worthy of my love. You are good enough for me. You are incredibly beautiful to me, makeup or no makeup. Filters or no filters. I absolutely love your body. I adore your imperfections. I am the luckiest man alive because I get to spend my life with you.
2. "I want to be in a partnership with you."
I want us to work together as a team. I want our relationship to be healthy. I want us to feel safe to talk to each other about anything: our fears, joys, and concerns. I want us to work together to nurture our relationship. Date nights, love trips, and quality time binge-watching our favorite shows are must-dos.
3. "I can’t wait to spend my life with you."
I want to be with you. I love spending time with you. You’re all I think about. You bring out the best in me. Life is sweeter with you in it.
4. "Do whatever it takes to let go of your past."
Please heal yourself of any unresolved relationship issues or other issues. It could be with an ex, your parents, a friend, a traumatic situation, an addiction, or anything else that you still haven’t let go of. Let go of any old judgments, fears, expectations, or misunderstandings. Have your heart be open and free to love me completely.
5. "Do whatever it takes to love yourself, completely."
You won’t really know how to love me if you don’t know how to love yourself. And, I want you to love from the overflow, not deplete yourself to be with me. Our relationship will be more connected on each level: physical, intimate, mental, emotional, and spiritual. Make sure that each of those levels is ready to receive the intimate connections that will be created between us as soulmates and twin flames. Know that you are amazing.
6. "Trust that everything happens for a reason and timing is everything."
Though I may not be with you yet, I promise that I am on my way to you. Be patient. Know that I am coming and that I cannot wait for us to be together. And every relationship that isn't with me is to support you in getting ready for me.
7. "Become the best version of yourself now."
Don't wait until I show up because that’s the version of you that I will recognize. That’s the version of you that will attract me into your life. Having an attitude of gratitude and being someone who is hopeful and positive will be powerful attractants to me.
8. "I want you to be completely yourself with me."
I want you to know that it is safe to be completely yourself with me. Over the next 50 years (more or less) that we will be together as life partners, things about us may change. We may put on weight or lose weight. We’ll get sick. We’ll experience things we never thought we would. But through it all, whether you put on 50 pounds, or vomit for days, I will never leave your side.
9. "I am your best friend and biggest cheerleader!"
I am here to support you, encourage you, empower you, and love you as kindred spirits. I will have your back no matter what. I want us to spend hours talking, or just sitting quietly holding hands. I want you to accomplish your dreams and will do whatever I can to help you make that happen.
10. "I want to have fun with you."
Life is difficult enough as it is. Let’s enjoy each other and enjoy our lives together. Let’s explore new places, and new foods, and meet new people. Let’s go on adventures together. Let’s laugh a lot together. Let’s play together.
11. "I want you to continue to do you."
If we enjoy common interests, then we can do those together. But, if there are certain things that I don’t enjoy doing, I want you to still do them. Spend time with your friends. Take your yoga classes. We’ve got our whole lives to be together, so time apart can be a good thing.
12. "Tell me how to love you."
One specific thing that I want you to be able to tell me is how I can love you. We all like to be loved in different ways. It would be a tremendous help to me if you were clear with me about how I can meet your needs. Become your soulmate’s soulmate now and watch what miracles occur that will help you find him. He really is on his way to you now, so use this time to prepare and to be in a healthy place in your life so that you’ll recognize him and be able to fully receive him.
Kelly Ann Garnett is a certified love attraction coach, certified life coach, spiritual psychologist, and educator for women looking for their soulmate. Her bylines have appeared in TIME and The Mind's Journal, as well as other websites.