If Your Man Can't Pass These 2 Easy Tests, Sorry, He's Not Into You
Now you'll know (right away!) if he's truly interested in you.
weheartit Very few women look at their relationship in the way I'm about to describe. If they did, they would spare themselves days, weeks (maybe even years) of wasted energy on wet kittens!
Ladies, to skip over the dud relationships and find a high-quality man instead, here are the questions you MUST start asking yourself while dating. These TWO questions will help you know where you stand with him quickly.
1. How much does he want to show you off in public?
Guys are extremely competitive, so it only makes sense that we want to show off something (or, in this case ... someone) we are proud of to the world, right?
If I buy myself a new Ferrari, you can bet I'm going to announce it to all my friends, their friends, and any strangers who show interest. If I don’t, there is something wrong. If you rank on his list — you should be his new Ferrari. This is a simple and highly effective first test of how "into you" he is (or isn't).
2. How eager is he to spend time with you when there is zero chance of getting sex?
I often write about tests you can use to determine whether or not you should commit your mind and body to a man.
One of my favorite tests is going on daytime dates. The chances of him having sex with you while having a morning cappuccino at Starbucks are about zero. So put him to this test. If he's interested in you, he'll jump at the chance to spend time with you (not just late at night when sex is likely).
Other ways to test his real interest in you include asking him to drive you to the airport or meet him for lunch with your Mom.
Ladies, let me be clear — if you used just these two ridiculously simple tests, your dating life would have less drama, and the world would be a very different, happier place (at least for women).
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