3 Sexy Themes To Heat Up Date Night

Stuck in a romantic rut? Sometimes, you just need to spice up your sex life with a theme! So here are three themed date nights taken from my book, Sexy and Sparkling. Choose one and get your sensual self in action!

"Casino Royale." This adventure is designed for those with little time. All you need is a little inspiration from James Bond to create a risqué rendezvous in your boudoir — "007" style. First, set the stage for your rendezvous. Spray-paint a toy gun gold and write an invitation saying, "Pssst … 007. Get ready to be shaken, not stirred. XOXO, Your Bond Girl." Roll up the invitation and hide it in the nose of the gun. Deliver this to his office or leave it on the seat of his car for him to find it. You can rent a few James Bond movies and decide which Bond bombshell you want to be — Vesper Lynd, Pussy Galore, Holly Goodhead, Honey Ryder — and roleplay as her persona.

"Recipe for romance" essentials:

• 1 pair glow-in-the-dark naughty dice
• 1 candle of love
• 1 red lipstick
• 1 pair of martini glasses
• A deck of cards

How to set the mood for romance:

• Lighting: red lamplight or red candles
• Music: "Gambler" by Madonna
• Beverage: Vesper Martini (of course)
• Appetizers: caviar, paté, mixed nuts and olives

Before your man retires for the night, sneak into the bathroom and scrawl an invitation in red lipstick across the mirror such as "007, your mission awaits ... meet me between the sheets for details." Meet him in a seductive bra-and-panty set, complete with garters, thigh-high stockings and stilettos. Take a deck of playing cards and strategically place a few aces in your lingerie. Keep reading ...

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"It Takes Two To Tango." Invite your significant other to join you in "the dance of love." The tango is all about attitude, drama, sensuality and passion. If you're not familiar with it, watch YouTube videos for dancing tips from the tango masters. Write an invitation saying, "It takes two to tango, so shall we?" Enclose it in a perfumed lace envelope and leave it on his car seat with a single red rose.

"Recipe for romance" essentials:

• 1 pair of black lace fingerless gloves (elbow-length)
• 1 pair of thigh-high fishnets
• 1 flirty lace fan
• 1 red rose

How to set the mood for romance:

• Lighting: dimly-lit candles
• Music: tango music
• Beverage: sangria
• Appetizers: "Exotic pleasure wrap."

Tantalize him with your tango dancer ensemble: thigh-high fishnets, sexy black lace gloves, a flirtatious fan and a long stem rose clenched between your teeth. Cheek-to-cheek, let your dance of passion begin. Let the pulse of the music evoke the romantic feeling of the evening. As you dance, flirt with some lusty leg wraps. Feel the heat! Keep reading ...

"Meet Me At The Kasbah." Invite your man to a romantic, Moroccan-themed date night. Write an invitation saying, "Meet me at the Kasbah. Your wish is my command. XOXO, Your Private Genie." Stuff it in a lamp (think: Aladdin) and send it to his office. Watch Rita Hayworth's YouTube clip and learn the dance of the seven veils.

"Recipe for romance" essentials:

• 1 belly dancer ensemble
• 2-4 Moroccan tea lights
• 3 richly colored pillows
• 1 "magic" carpet
• 1 lamp

How to set the mood for romance:

• Lighting: dim candlelight
• Music: Moroccan music
• Appetizers: spiced lamb skewers with tabbouleh & artesian olives

Transform your den with earthy pillows, candlelight and a feast fit for a king. When he arrives at your home, greet him at the door in your belly dancer best (with some sensual shimmying). Invite your man into the palace den for an exotic ride on your magic carpet, three juicy wishes and a mesmerizing dance of the seven veils!

If you would like more romantic ideas, feel free to visit my website to check out my book. www.SexyandSparkling.com — you'll find a free gift waiting for you!