3 Erotic Sex Positions That Make Women Orgasm
Do it just how she likes it.
Giorgio Encinas on UnsplashIf you want to know how to make a woman orgasm fast during sex, this might be the most important article you ever read.
You're about to learn the best sex positions to make female orgasms come faster than you probably ever thought possible.
Why does it take so long for some women to have an orgasm?
Contrary to what many men think, the reason she usually outlasts you in bed has nothing to do with your size or stamina. Rather, it's because most guys have sex in positions that stimulate their own areas of sensitivity, not their woman's.
If your woman is lying on her back, "the ceiling" inside her vagina is home to her "orgasm zones" — the parts of her that cause intense orgasms, like the g-spot and upper deep spot. If you thrust straight in and out of her (like most guys do), you’re not hitting these spots.
If you’ve got an upward curve or a thick penis, that’s great. You'll stimulate her orgasm zones more than guys who don’t. But even then, you’ll only reach a tiny fraction of her orgasm-producing potential. When you use the thrusting motions and sex positions I’m about to show you, your tip plows into her O’zones, and this will make her orgasm much more intense and a lot faster!
The trick to explosive orgasmic thrusting is to thrust in and up. Imagine a park swing. You start low then swing forward and up, then back down and away. Stand up right now and move your hips in a swing motion. Don't move your legs or stomach. Only move your hips and core, like a swing.
This is the motion you need to use if you want to make her come fast during sex. Another option is to use specific positions that make you hit the spot by default.
Here are the three best erotic sex positions to give a woman the most intense (and fast) orgasms of her life.
1. The Missionary Magician Position
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The missionary position is one of the most popular sex positions. Some call it vanilla, but different variations can give women explosive orgasms. To give her a powerful g-spot orgasm in this classic position, you only need to make two simple tweaks:
First, put a pillow under her butt to tilt her pelvis. Next, throw her legs over your shoulders, then thrust straight back and forth and you'll drive hard into her g-spot! If you can handle it without finishing too fast, rest both her legs on the same shoulder. She'll feel tighter to you and you'll feel massive to her!
2. Double Doggy Style Sex Position
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The classic doggy style position is a huge favorite for many men and women. Many women say it’s the best sex position for orgasms because it stimulates their "ceiling" (or in this position, their floor.)
Here's how to take it to the next level and make it twice as orgasmic for her:
Have her lie flat on her stomach with a pillow under her pelvis. Again, the pillow creates a slight angle that’s going to make her g-spot an easy target for your soldier. (All those extra pillows she wanted on the bed are starting to look better and better aren’t they?)
Now, get on top of her and thrust straight down at a 90-degree angle. You’ll be plowing straight into her g-spot and making her feel crazy good! Hold her arms down by her sides to show sexual authority while you whisper some dirty words into her ear.
3. The Lean Back Cowgirl Position
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Your woman wants to have an orgasm. Duh! So, when she gets on top during sex, she wants to show you exactly how to make it happen. But most guys are completely oblivious to this and end up pushing her orgasm further away by starting to thrust in a way that feels best to him.
When a woman gets on top and rides you the way that feels best to her, you notice that she doesn’t go straight up and down. Instead, she grinds you. It’s not intuitive to men, but that’s the type of motion that’s going to make her feel way better!
Since it’s not intuitive to us, we often hold her in place and start thrusting fast and hard from the bottom. It feels best for us, but if you want to make her orgasm, that's not going to cut it.
Instead, let her grind you and pay attention to how she’s stimulating her g-spot and clitoris. If she’s laying in top of you and grinding, she’s trying to stimulate her clitoris against your penis. If she’s leaning back, she’s trying to make your tip rub against her g-spot.
Many women don’t realize they can hit their g-spot by leaning back, so tell her give it a try. When she lays on top of you, tell her how sexy it would be if she leaned back. If she’s never tried this position before, it might take her a minute to find the perfect motion. Be patient and give her a minute to find it.
Once she does, put your palm on her pubic bone and rub her clit with your thumb for more orgasmic stimulation. Make sure she’s found the right groove and don't let your finger play interfere with it.
Bonus Tip: The more orgasms she has, the less time it takes her to do have one again.
The first orgasm usually takes the longest to "build up." Once she does, it takes less time to make her orgasm again.
So if you want to make a woman orgasm fast during penetration, give her more foreplay orgasms first. The more foreplay orgasms you give her, the less time it will take during penetration.
Nick Hardwick is an author, sex coach and sex educator and expert based in Montreal. His website offers more information about how to improve your sexual intimacy.