How To Kiss A Guy So He'll Never Forget You
10 expert tips that'll make you a master kisser.
getty Being a good kisser is a very important trait to have, but it doesn't occur overnight.
If you know how to kiss a guy, then keeping him attracted to you gets even easier because lots of sensual kissing is the precursor to having a great sex life.
Unfortunately, too many people doubt their kissing skills or never learn how to kiss in the first place. So, let's get back to the basics.
I'm going to teach women exactly how to kiss a guy with passion in order to turn him on and make him want you even more.
How do you kiss a guy perfectly?
There isn't one specific way to kiss a guy that makes it perfect. Each kiss is different and is a very personal thing.
There are all sorts of kissing techniques he will find pleasurable, but to kiss a guy perfectly is to kiss him in a way where you both feel comfortable.
Where do boys like to be kissed?
There aren't many places guys don't enjoy being kissed! The back of the neck, the lips, the ears, the inner wrist, the cheek — literally all over the place.
There are also his erogenous zones if you want to get him all hot and bothered.
But be sure to check with them to see if he has any problem areas first. And remember that great sex keeps his attention in the moment, but an amazing kiss can keep you on his mind for ages.
How to kiss a guy and keep his attention:
1. Prepare your lips beforehand.
Before I show you how to kiss your guy, you first need to do a small bit of prep work. I'm not talking about studying up on the ancient masters of kissing. I'm talking about making sure that your lips are your most kissable!
This is especially important if you're just a beginner when it comes to kissing. If it's your first time, it may/will be awkward, so no need to add on more awkwardness with chapped lips.
This means using a good lip balm so your lips are soft and not chapped. While wearing lipstick will make your lips look more enticing and attractive, it's often a bad choice as it ends up leaving marks all over your man when you do kiss him (as well as getting smudged all over your mouth). It's not the most attractive thing.
Another thing to prep is your breath. No one wants bad breath when they're kissing, so pop a mint, chew some gum, brush your teeth, or use some mouthwash beforehand.
2. Give subtle hints you are ready to kiss.
If you like, you can try being super-direct and asking your man if he'd like to kiss you or even just lunge for him, but this doesn't always work and can often lead to embarrassment and a whole lot of blushing.
A much better way is to subtly let your man know exactly what's on your mind. This is a great tactic for people of all kissing levels too, not just beginners. Everyone likes gentle kisses.
While you're talking to him, stop focusing so much on his eyes and face and start paying more attention to his lips. The most effective way to do this is by glancing down to his lips every once in a while, for just a few seconds mid-conversation. He may not notice you doing this at first, but after a minute or two, most guys will realize exactly what's going on.
Couple this with slowing down your talking speed and slightly leaning in closer to your man. This body language can almost guarantee that your man will know what's up.
If he's keen to start kissing you, then he'll copy what you are doing by leaning in, slowing down his conversation, and he may also start glancing at your lips, too. If he does any of this, you can be almost positive that he wants to kiss you.
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3. Start kissing your guy softly and slowly at first.
When he does eventually move in to kiss you, or you move in to kiss him, start slowly. Gently purse your lips and, as softly and gently as you can, massage his lips between yours. You should start with his bottom lip and then move to his top lip.
Important note: Eye contact is great to establish a connection before the kiss, but while kissing please close your eyes. That way you can really feel every sensation from the kiss!
4. Switch things up during the kiss.
After gently massaging his lips for a while, you can change tactics a little bit.
Start to get a tiny bit more aggressive and instead of massaging his lips between yours, squeeze them. Now, there's no need to try and crush his lips with as much force as possible. Just use enough to show him that you are passionate.
5. Use your teeth softly while kissing.
Ask anyone how to kiss a guy and they will tell you to use your lips. It's true — you obviously need to use your lips to kiss him. But if that's all you use, then your man is missing out on a lot more sensation. He's certainly missing out if you choose to never use your teeth on him!
Disclaimer: When I say use your teeth on him, I do not mean that you should bite him as hard as possible to try and take a chunk out of him. Heck no! I mean that you should be as gentle as possible so as not to accidentally hurt your man.
Using your teeth while kissing your man is straightforward. Think about it as if you are softly nibbling on his lips. You can squeeze his top lip or bottom lip between your teeth, and you can also run your teeth slowly over his lips for a different sensation.
You may want to wait on using your teeth if it's your first kiss. It's a good idea to get some experience to see how others use their teeth and collect that information to use in future kisses.
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6. Tilt your head to the side during the kiss.
Something that many women sometimes forget is that they may be only focusing on one side of their man's face. Because you can't kiss your man head-on, you obviously need to tilt your head to one side. When you do this, you will be a lot more comfortable and can really start enjoying yourself
But don't make the mistake of neglecting the other side of his face. Every once in a while, make sure to change your head position so that it's tilted to the other side. Beginners, please don't freeze in shock!
7. Let the guy kiss you and lead.
When learning how to kiss a guy, women often fall into the trap of thinking that they need to do all the work. You don't. You should be doing 50 percent of the work or even less.
Unless, of course, you enjoy being the dominant one, let your man take over and be the one who leads the kiss.
8. Kiss him in other places besides his lips.
Figuring out how to kiss your man often leads women to only focus on his lips. If you do, then you're missing out on all the other sensitive erogenous zones on his body that are super pleasurable to have kissed.
So, if you are getting tired or bored of just focusing on his lips, kiss him on the cheek. If that's not enough for you, then bury your head in his neck and start kissing, sucking, massaging and nibbling him there.
If you want another thing to focus on, try very softly licking and kissing his ear.
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9. Gasp.
This is mostly for those who are going for their first kiss.
Guys like to know they are giving you something new and exciting when they know it's your first kiss. So, a way to show him that he's succeeding and motivate him to give you a great first kiss is to let out a small gasp right before you lock lips.
10. Practice your kissing techniques as often as possible.
Of course, this just one type of kiss; there are several types of kisses out there because everyone has their own way of lip-locking.
There are a lot of different tips, techniques, tactics, and ideas that you can use from this guide on how to kiss a guy. Doing them all perfectly the first time you try them just isn't realistic.
To master these techniques and learn how to kiss a guy so he'll never forget you, expect that sometimes it will be awkward.
It's natural and normal when trying something new, so don't worry.
Just see it as something you are practicing and, eventually, it will become second nature to you.
Sean Jameson is a sex expert and writer. If you enjoyed learning these kissing tips and want to learn his most powerful and explicit tips and techniques, you may be interested in learning more on his Bad Girl's Bible website.