The Deep Throating Guide Your Man Is Secretly Hoping You'll Read
He'll be in ecstasy.
Shtennikova Evgenia / shutterstock Most guys never get to experience deep throating during oral sex. If you can be the person who allows your man to experience it, you'll be giving him something that most girls can't.
We're here to arm you with the knowledge of how to give the best deep throat blowjobs to your man — without gagging.
Before I give you the tips, I just want to tell you that learning how to deep throat your guy takes effort and practice. Just reading these tips and not doing anything will mean that you'll make little progress.
But if you put into practice what I'm going to teach you here, then you are going to get good at deep throating your man quickly.
OK, let's learn some oral sex techniques!
Test your gag reflex
Taking him into the back of your throat means you will be stimulating your gag reflex.
The sensitivity of your gag reflex could be incredibly high ... or low. It varies greatly from person to person.
If you have a sensitive gag reflex, then you are going to gag really easily at the slightest touch and sometimes even throw up when you gag! This is definitely not something that you want to do in front of your man, so it's best to first test out your gag reflex to see how sensitive it is before you do it while giving your man a BJ.
To do this all you need to do is use a penis-shaped object like a banana or dildo and slowly slide it into your mouth until it touches the back of your throat and stimulates your gag reflex (just make sure that whatever it is, you can take it out of your mouth again!).
Also while doing this, make sure to note that certain positions make it easier to avoid the gag reflex than others.
How to not gag during a blow job
Now that you know how sensitive your gag reflex is, it's time to take steps to get rid of it.
You are going to do this by slowly building up a tolerance to having it stimulated. If it's very sensitive, then this part is going to take longer, while if it's not sensitive at all, then you don't need to do this part and should skip to the next section.
To get rid of your gag reflex while deep throating, you are going to slowly practice on something penis shaped like a dildo, banana, or vibrator. You are going to slowly insert it into the back of your mouth so that it sets off your gag reflex. While doing this, you need to concentrate hard on relaxing it, so that you suppress your gagging.
At first, this is near impossible. But, if you practice it regularly for about five minutes at a time, you will quickly discover that you can gain more control over it. Eventually, you will notice that you can repeatedly touch the back of your throat without gagging at all.
Just remember that completely eliminating your gag reflex takes time. For some, it only takes a day or two, while for others, it can take weeks.
Deep Throating Blowjob Techniques
Now that you've spent some time learning how to deep throat properly and you can comfortably do it with something resembling your man's penis, it's time to try the real thing! There's no need to tell your man though. It works way better as a surprise.
The next time you are giving your man a blowjob, start to take him deeper and deeper into your throat until you doing exactly what you've just been practicing. You may be eager to do this straight away at the start, but if you can wait until about a minute before he reaches orgasm, the effect will be much more powerful.
You'll find that doing it for long periods of time is quite difficult, so make sure to take breaks and go back to giving him a regular blow job if you find that your throat is getting tired or your gag reflex is starting to return.
Simply taking him into and out of your mouth is all you need to do when giving him deep throat. Most guys will be perfectly happy and content with that. But if you want, you can add an extra layer of pleasure for your man by turning your head from side to side while moving your mouth up and down on him.
Best Position for Deep Throat
The position that you use potentially makes it 10 times easier for you.
The easiest way to do it is when your mouth and throat are aligned in a straight line, as it makes it harder for your man to hit your gag reflex. A good position to take so that your mouth and throat are aligned in a straight line is lying on your back and hanging your head slightly over the edge of the bed. Another great position is when you are on your knees and looking toward the ceiling with your face.
Conversely, you're likely to find it more uncomfortable when you're kneeling and facing forward as your throat and mouth aren't aligned.
One problem people constantly face is that they produce a lot of saliva. While you may want to prevent this from happening, there is, unfortunately, nothing you can do about it.
Thankfully, though, it will make everything feel a lot more luscious and sensual for your man, so don't worry about it.
Sean Jameson is a sex expert and founder of the Bad Girl's Bible website, where you can learn advanced techniques to improve your sex life. If you enjoyed learning these sex positions for deep penetration and want to know how to give a guy incredible oral sex, check out his video tutorial.