The 5 Most Popular Apps For Swinging & Threesomes (And What You Need To Know)

Face it, long-term relationships can get boring!

Good sex is a quintessential aspect of a happy relationship. And when any aspect of what should be a mind-blowing experience gets boring and predictable, then there is a need to infuse a little excitement into the relationship — and we are not talking about lighting more candles or throwing in some more foreplay!

Whether it’s a threesome or a full swing, a new experience can help put an end to the boredom that the familiarity of spending years with one person holds.

For new couples, exploring their sexual boundaries gives them an opportunity to inject something fresh into their relationship.

And because there’s an app for everything these days, we have put together this list and review of the top 5 threesome app for dating and the swinger lifestyle to get you started on meeting like-minded people who are genuine about their sexual curiosities and activities:

1. 3Somer

The 3somer app was created for people looking for genuine threesome hookups or just looking to have a dip into the threesome lifestyle without going through the hassle of finding couples or singles who are as willing as they are to get kinky!

While the 3somer app would not help you find the love of your life, it comes with a plethora of features that play an important role in matching you with like-minded people for an awesome threesome or swinging experience!

This app is certainly the best there is for experienced and new threesomers and swingers.

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According to 3Somer, joining their platform is the best way to make your threesome fantasy and desire a reality. Whether you are gay, lesbian, white, black, Christian, Jewish, the 3somer app has like-minded people from all races, sexual preferences, locations, and religions.

3Somer Features: 

• Find the people you like: The 3somer app is designed to help you find the people you like easily. Instead of showing you tons of user profiles that might confuse you, the app has the Spark feature where you simply swipe right to indicate your interest in a couple or a unicorn or you could swipe left to pass!
• Send chat messages: When two users swipe right to indicate interest in each other, the 3somer app has a chat feature to enable them to chat in real time. This means, unlike many other platforms, you don’t get messages from random people you are not interested in.
• Profiles are manually reviewed: The creators of the 3somer app would review each profile for authenticity to ensure that everyone on their platform is in compliance with their terms and conditions.
• No porn or adult photos: The platform is a dating site that helps open-minded people make their threesome desires and fantasy a reality.
• No advertisements!

Getting started on the platform is really simple! Just follow these easy steps:

• Step 1: Register your account with a cool name by filling the form with your information (age, location, gender, etc.)
• Step 2: Upload clear images of yourself.
• Step 3: Play spark to swipe right to show your interest or left to pass.

When the 3somer app was released, it was free to download and use even up to its premium membership. But following the widespread use and demand for the app, the premium service now comes with monthly subscription fees but regular users can still get in for free. However, we would advise opting for the premium membership for the best experience!

The premium pricing plans are:

• 1-month subscription with auto-renewal: $15.99
• 3-month subscription with auto-renewal: $35.99
• 6-month subscription: $59.99

The 3Somer app is convenient to use and totally free to download. All user data are confidential, so you don’t have to stress about what happens to your personal information.

All you need to do is create a profile, allow the app to access your location and start swiping. Once you’ve managed to find a mutual connection, you’d be able to interact in real time. Everything is so simple that going back to traditional and more complex dating apps wouldn’t be possible after using 3Somer.

For more information, visit the 3somer website.

2. Feeld 

The Feeld app used to be referred to as 3nder (pronounced "thrinder"). Like the 3somer app, this app is designed to connect kinky, curious and open-minded couples and singles to like-minded people looking to explore similar sexual fantasies.

Whether you are into polyamory or just not into the sharing thingy, you can always find people who think and desire the same things as you do and explore your sexual curiosities in a private space created just for you.

The Feels app features a simplistic setup that maximizes user experience without compromising on efficiency. Some key features of the Feeld app include:

• Everyone is welcome: Both singles and couples looking for threesomes are welcome. Unlike the 3somer app, you don’t need to like or dislike a profile to see another profile. You can look at all your options and decide what you want later.
• Join solo or pair up: You can invite your partner to the Feeld platform and link your accounts for a couple’s experience.
• Discover Feeld Cores: Feeld Cores gives you the option to change your location to any of the platforms most populated areas and check out like-minded people in those locations.
• Create groups: Threesome dating apps are usually person to person exclusive but Feeld has the option of creating groups which offer more flexibility. 
• Advanced privacy options: Feeld users are usually Facebook verified but you can hide your profile from your friends using Feelds advanced privacy options.
• Send photos in chat: For an even better user experience, Feeld users can send pictures in chats and make them disappear or stay with the permanent and temporary options.
• Future Connections: See who wants to connect with you.

Registering on the platform is really easy. Simply fill the required details and plus, you don’t need to input your real name!

Like the 3somer app, it is free to download and use on its regular membership but the Majestic Service comes with monthly subscription fees and we would advise opting for the Majestic membership for the best experience!

• The Majestic Membership comes at £14.99 ($20 US dollars) per month or at a discounted 3-month rate of £29.98 ($40 US dollars) upfront.
• Member must manage subscriptions and can turn off auto-renewal by navigating to the Account Settings after purchase.
• New and existing members are allowed to try out the Majestic Membership with a free 7-day trial.

Feeld Apps proves to be a great dating platform that works exactly as advertised. The membership base on the platform is increasing at an exponential rate and finding the perfect match wouldn’t be a nightmarish experience.

However, the one downside that makes Feeld less of an open-minded app than the 3somer app is that the app is more aimed towards attractive bisexual women. For straight men looking to get kinky, the 3somer app is a better option!

But if you insist on Feeld, then you might want to try the free membership before opting for a Majestic membership package.

3. FabSwingers.com

This platform has been in existence for over 10 years, seeing as it was established in 2006. FabSwingers is a free to use platform for genuine swingers looking to connect with like-minded couples.

With over 130,000 visitors to the platform, there are a plethora of options available for couples looking to get hooked with other swinging couples without having to visit a swingers club.

FabSwingers offers amazing features which make connecting with other swingers easy and comfortable.

Simply register with your username, location, gender, interests, etc and get started finding a match! Chat in real time with other members of Fab Swingers or use the forum to raise and discuss issues pertaining to FabSwingers. Members can send and receive messages discretely as well as share their sexual fantasies on the platform and be open to other members who share similar fantasies.

Fab Swingers is quite the user-friendly platform offering incredible value for free. You can verify if a participant or couple is genuine. If you are a serious swinger, FabSwinger is a cool place to go!

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4. Swingers Date Club

Established in 1999, the Swingers Date Club (SDC) has grown to become arguably the most recognized and trusted swinging app and website available on the internet today. With over 3 million active members across various countries in the world like United Kingdom, Germany, Netherlands, and the United States, SDC is a place where you are sure to meet like-minded swingers. 

Signing up on their website gives you access to a limited free trial. During the trial period, users can browse through some of the available features. However, paying the $8.33 monthly subscription gives you access to all SDC features.

The SDC app ensures your safety on the platform with its strict guidelines designed to protect its members.

If you are looking to explore a swinging lifestyle without distractions, the SDC app and website offers you the most unique and regulated environment to do so discreetly!

5. SwingLifestyle.com

Swing Lifestyle is a website that we are at crossroads about. We are not sure if to say it’s a very good or a very bad website. There are a few details that the platform must improve on to move up on our top 5.

If we had to suggest a website and app, we would say, the top three are a better option than the last two by a mile! But, for the ultimate best threesome and swinging experience, the 3somer app is our pick!

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Mindy Song is a sex educator, writer, and part-time counselor for a threesome app.