Best-selling author Kei K Lam (aka Kei Kay) is founder of the Compassion-Activation healing technique. She is a Relationship Healer, helping sensitive, spiritually-open moms with husband issues to restore peace in their life, so that their children can grow up in a loving home environment with confident, happy parents to model after.
My career began as a geophysicist in a large corporation. I had a B.Sc in Geology and Physics and an M.Sc in Operations Research (engineering). After eight years at my job I felt unfulfilled, moved on to start my own business building condominium townhomes.
Real estate development launched me onto a major learning curve. All the most difficult issues had to do with human relationships. From playing politics for permit approval, to price negotiations, quality control with subtrades, managing customer expectations… and worst of all, the developing tension with my husband as a result of this career change.
These daily battles piled up inside of me. Fifteen years later I came down with breast cancer.
Coming from an upbringing that focused on science, I wasn’t prepared to deal with people who could twist hard facts around to suit themselves conveniently. I didn’t grow up with role models to be an effective negotiator. English wasn’t even my first language.
Being authentic was a quality I refused to give up. I wanted to accommodate other people, but I didn’t want to compromise. I needed to be me.
So I spent years improving my knowledge on relating. In the process, I learned lots about who I am and why I am here on Earth. The more I knew about myself, the easier it became to relate to others. The more compassion I gave to myself, the easier it became to understand and accept others.
These days I like to focus on working with mothers because of their vital role in shaping the future of our world. Our future generation depends on mother while in her womb for physical and emotional foundation, as well as a role model for life. The more I strived to improve myself, the more I appreciated the significance of mothering.
And happy relationship is where it all begins. A happy marriage feeds emotional fulfillment to a mother, a contented cheerful mother leads to a healthy confidant child, who will build a constructive peaceful society.
In 2011 I was blessed with a special divine energy gift which I named Activation. The gentle yet powerful energy opens doors to access hidden potential for my clients, including peace and happiness in relationship. Activation is now an integral part of my healing technique.
I am a best-selling author of Answering The Call, describing my journey to change my outer reality by changing myself. I am also a Certified Zhi Neng Herb Practitioner, Certified Soul Coach, Certified Past Life Coach, Certified Compassion Key Master Practitioner, and a Psychosomatic Practitioner.
Now it’s your turn to tell me a bit about you! Please say hello at keikay@superintelligencewellness.com .
