8 Tips For Seriously Gold Medal-Winning Hand Jobs He'll CRAVE

When guys discuss their sexual fantasies, an amazing handjob from a girl rarely comes in top 10 — not even top 100. That’s a shame, because a proper handjob can leave a guy weak in the knees, trembling with pleasure. 

Why should you care about handjobs? 

For starters, guys usually think like this — a good handjob means a good blowjob which results in good sex. If you're not so competent in the handjob department, it's a major turn-off for most guys. In some extreme cases, bad handjobs lead to loss of erection, and nobody wants that.

The reality is that most women are completely clueless when it comes to handjobs. So today I’ve decided to help you put an end to lack of your handjob skills.

Why should you listen to me? Because I’m going to give it to you straight — no sugarcoating, no BS. Just the cold, hard truth you won’t find anywhere else. So, with that said, let us begin. 

Here are 9 quick handjob tips that will INSTANTLY make your next handjob a success.

1. Initiative will be rewarded

Girls, here’s the thing. Men HATE IT when they have to pull your hand down to his member. It makes us feel like we’re forcing you to do something you don’t want to do. It is very unattractive.

Instead, go for it yourself. Pleasantly surprise your guy by dropping his pants and grabbing his fun stick.

2. Learn from the best

No matter how experienced you are, he’s been masturbating since he was a teenager and there’s nobody that knows his body better than he does. Ask him to show you how he masturbates, and play close attention. A few sexy licks here and there will be a lovely tease.

To give it less of a “science experiment” vibe, strip for him while he plays with himself. That’s sure to put a fire in the bedroom.

3. Double the pleasure with dirty talk

While you’re playing with him, bring your lips to his ear and whisper all the naughty things you want to do to him. The key to dirty talk isn’t some horrible line or technique, but your attitude. You're his little sex slave, and you exist only for his pleasure. That’s the attitude you want to have when whispering in his ear.

4. Have fun with lube

If you’re just playing with him with no intention of sex afterward, use oil. It will greatly intensify the pleasurable sensations he will experience. But remember that oils ruin condoms so be careful! If you're planning on sex afterward, just use water-based lube.

If you’re just giving him a top-notch handjob, don’t use a condom. Lube him up, tickle his balls and TEASE. Don’t hurry anywhere to make him orgasm, it’s not a race. If you appear like you’re in a hurry, it’ll be a total turn off and he’ll just feel self-conscious.

5. Best stroking pace

Surprisingly, even though we guys can be like racehorses when having sex, always trying to reach that finish line as soon as possible, when it comes to masturbation we like a more moderate tempo. Begin slowly, then keep a moderate/semi high stroking tempo, and only speed up if you’re certain that he’s a few seconds away from having an orgasm.

6. The magic of only using two fingers

Sometimes a break from the routine is needed. Next time you want to spice things up, instead of using your whole hand during a hand job, just use your thumb and index finger to help him off. 

Massage the head of his penis with the palm of one hand in circling motions, and then just your fingers or thumb quickly left and right around his frenulum and at the same time use your other hand to tickle/gently scratch his balls with your nails.

Try just caressing him with your oiled up nails. Lick your lips as if you are hungry and moan together with him while you do this combo. It will take some time to get used to this technique (and a little experimentation) but in the end, it is most definitely worth it.

7. Play the flute

While he's erect, lightly and quickly tap his member as if you’re playing the flute. Vary the speed and strength of your touch according to his reaction.

8. And the BEST handjob technique of ALL TIME is...

A blowjob.

Although handjobs can be an amazing and extremely pleasurable experience, men will always consider them as just an appetizer for blowjobs. While that’s not always true (yes, they can be pleasurable for their own sake), I promised I wouldn’t lie to you, so here’s the truth: a handjob without a blowjob is blue balls in his mind. And that is the best case scenario. At worst, he’s going to think you’re teasing him and that you’re not interested, so he won’t call you back.

The problem with handjobs is he can do it without you, alone. It’s not so romantic or emotionally connecting on a deeper level. And it's very rare that a woman can give him a better handjob than he, being that he has more practice. 

So just view handjobs as FOREPLAY, something you do to tease him into a mind-blowing blowjob — something he’ll never be able to forget.

Blowjobs have the power to transform your relationship and make any guy sexually addicted to you. No joke. Your future relationship happiness depends on your ability to completely satisfy your man. Are you 100% confident that you are the best he’s ever had? Because if you’re not, he WILL stray even if he tells you that he loves you. Men are convincing liars. And I’m not telling you this just to scare you, this actually happens.

If there’s even a 1% chance that he’s not completely addicted to your touch, you must act now. There’s no time for delay — even as you’re reading this, he could be thinking about his ex and how she used to hit just the right spot with her tongue or the back of her deep throat. He'll be wondering if she’s available for “coffee.” 

Luckily for you, there is a solution. You don’t need to read Cosmo’s BS advice about how to rotate your tongue at 45 degrees while doing calculations in your head for the optimal blowjob experience — this isn’t rocket science.

Learning how to please your man with your lips is one of if not THE most important things you can do to insure his everlasting loyalty to you. I cannot stress this enough.

He will never be completely satisfied with even the most spectacular handjob. So, if you're already learning how to bring him pleasure, why not take it a step further and become the one girl he fantasizes about every day — even when he is playing with himself? 

If you really want to make your man happy, you should read my book, Jack’s Blowjob Lessons. It is #1 blowjob manifesto full of secret tips and techniques for GOLD MEDAL blowjobs. There’s a reason why tens of thousands of women keep this book as their tightly guarded treasure for keeping any men sexually ADDICTED to them.