Why You Never Want To Breakup With Him, By Zodiac Sign
It's always hard to say good-bye.
unsplash Loss is one of the worst feelings.
That moment when you realize something precious to you is missing creates a sense of panic.
You start looking everywhere for it. Where could it be?
You can feel desperate to find what you lost, especially if it’s something that holds a lot of value for you.
Of course, not everything you lose is an item of significance.
Sometimes it’s as simple as accidentally putting your keys in the fridge, or filing a document under the wrong category. But no matter what it is, no one wants to lose things.
That goes for people too. The fear that crosses someone’s face when their child is missing is unparalleled. We don’t want to lose anyone close to us.
It’s why we cry at funerals. It’s like a part of us has been taken. The people we know make us who we are, after all.
This also applies to relationships. Along with friends and family, the people we choose to get close and intimate with matter a lot to us.
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So when the day of the breakup is upon you, it’s also why it hurts so much. You get this feeling of knowing that you don’t want to lose them.
But why is that? Is there a deeper reason other than simply not wanting to lose that person? If you look at the stars, you may find some sort of answer.
In astrology, great loss is signified by the planet Saturn. When you combine that with your given personality traits, you can find a way to get some answers.
Each sign has its own traits and because of that, each one has their own reasons for doing what they do and thinking about what they think.
So, from Aries to Pisces, here’s why you don’t want to lose him, per astrology.
ARIES (March 21 – April 19)
You don’t want to break up with him simply because you don’t like to lose, period. Your passion and drive apply not only to live around you but specifically your relationships as well.
Also, you started going out with him because he gives you a challenge, so if you two broke up, you’d feel like no one is able to keep up with you.
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TAURUS (April 20 – May 20)
You don’t want to lose him because he provides a sense of security.
While you’re a fairly stable and steadfast individual already, you have needs too, and he provides that.
Whether that be through gifts, romantic outings or something a little more intimate, he helps to give you comfort in daily routine. Who’d want to let that go?
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GEMINI (May 21 –June 20)
You don’t want to lose him because he makes everything better.
You always have someone to talk to and hang out with, and on top of that, with him around, you’re never alone (at least not for long).
He also helps to keep things interesting and can always make decisions when you can’t.
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CANCER (June 21 – July 22)
You don’t want to lose him because you’re attached to him. Being a Cancer, you’re not really an easy-going person.
Your mood can change as often as the time and you’re always on edge. But when he’s around, you feel a little better.
You trust him and you know he’s there for you. That fact alone is enough to want to keep him with you.
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LEO (July 23 – August 22)
You don’t want to lose him because he makes you feel like a queen. He helps to put you in the spotlight and you love that.
Not only that, but he also takes you on excursions and out to clubs. You’re living the good life with him and you don’t want to give that up.
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VIRGO (August 23 – September 22)
You don’t want to lose him because he helps you to relax. You work so hard and you’re so practical and yet you’re still so hard on yourself.
But, when you come home and he’s there, it’s like it all washes away. It’s as if he knows exactly what you need.
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LIBRA (September 23 – October 22)
You don’t want to lose him because he’s with you.
As a Libra, you hate being alone, so knowing that there’ll always be someone that will be with you is a great feeling.
And because you two get along so well, it’s just perfect harmony for you, which is exactly what you want.
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SCORPIO (October 23 – November 21)
You don’t want to lose him because he’s one of the most honest people you know.
You hate when people keep secrets, but with him, you have nothing to worry about.
He tells you exactly what’s on his mind when you ask and he always keeps it real with you.
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SAGITTARIUS (November 22 – December 21)
You don’t want to lose him because not only can he take your unintentional crassness, but he also will go anywhere with you.
No matter the place, he’s willing to follow. That doesn’t just go for physical locations. It’s for your dreams and ambitions too. He believes in you.
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CAPRICORN (December 22 – January 19)
You don’t want to lose him because, well, he’s actually stuck around.
You know you can be kind of a jerk sometimes, but yet through that he’s still here and even asked you out.
You may not want to admit it, but you love that he’s willing to see through your worst as no one else can.
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AQUARIUS (January 20 – February 18)
You don’t want to lose him because he respects your wishes. This means that he understands your desire for independence and doesn’t force himself on you.
He also knows that sometimes you just need space and that that’s okay. But when you do need him, he’s there.
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PISCES (February 19 – March 20)
You don’t want to lose him because he appreciates your talent. You have a natural skill for anything creative, whether it be art or music.
He’s there to let you know just how good he thinks it is. No one wants their work to go unnoticed.
It’s not that you want people to throw you compliments, but it is nice to hear it.
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Jesse Oakley is a writer who writes about love, relationships, self-care, spirituality, and astrology.