Why He Keeps Asking You Out, Even Though You’re Married, By Zodiac Sign
Some guys just don't know when to call it quits.
pexels Alright, I’m going to start by saying this- if someone’s married, stop asking them out! That ring’s on their finger for a reason.
Even if your reason is “she/ he’s not happy,” at least let them end the marriage before you hit on them.
Now that that’s out of the way, it’s true that there are some guys that just won’t listen. Some men love a challenge and there's nothing more complex than trying to get a married woman to cheat.
Contrary to popular belief, persistence tends to only work if the woman is genuinely interested in you. If she's not, there's literally nothing to make her have an affair on someone that she loves.
It’s not like in the movies where the girl hates the guy at first but because he keeps bothering her they suddenly fall in love. Don’t get me wrong, it makes for a great story. Unfortunately though, it’s not really reality.
To be honest I’m pretty baffled by the notion of asking out a married woman. But I suppose the heart wants what the heart wants. And of course there are plenty of reasons as to why this guy is so keen on making you his.
For one, it could be that he just doesn’t know you’re married. Whether that’s because you didn’t say or because you’re one of those people that goes out without their ring on, he can’t know what he doesn’t know. Of course, this means that the fault falls on both pairs of shoulders.
If you think it’s solely his fault (and chances are it probably is), then how about this- he thinks he’s the one for you.
It’s fairly likely he’s operating under that sort of delusion if he’s hitting on you with a ring on your finger. There’s always the possibility he’s right. Maybe fate means for you two to be together. But, that’s rarely the case.
Fate or not, astrology can lend a helping hand. So, here’s why that guy won’t leave you alone based on your zodiac sign.
ARIES (March 21 – April 19)
If you’re an Aries, you honestly probably don’t have this problem. You’re dedicated to the one you love and if anyone tries to get in between you push them away fast and make it clear they don’t have a chance.
TAURUS (April 20 – May 20)
A Taurus is going to be similar to an Aries in this situation. Though completely different on the surface, you know what you want and once you’ve found it, you’re not letting go. While you may not be as fiery as an Aries, you’ll definitely refuse any advance and give the guy no chance to interfere.
GEMINI (May 21 – June 20)
Ah Geminis, you’re just too nice for your own good. That guy keeps asking you out because you won’t just say no. You want to have fun, and if he’s a fun guy, why not? It’s just one lead-on after another. Cut him off and stand strong on it.
CANCER (June 21 – July 22)
For Cancers, that guy that won’t stop asking you out is probably your ex-boyfriend. Because of your constant insecurities and emotional nature, it seems there’s always an opening for that old flame to reignite.
LEO (July 23 – August 22)
The sad truths for Leos is that you’re just a people magnet. While that’s great for having a lot of friends, it’s not the same for when you’re married (especially if your spouse is the jealous type). Attracting people means attracting guys who take an interest in you. You want the attention, but it’ll probably get you in trouble.
VIRGO (August 23 – September 22)
For Virgos with this problem, your shyness is your weakness. There are plenty of guys that like the shy type, and since you’re married that means you probably found one. But that doesn’t mean that the others suddenly go away. In public, you still look like an easy target, and being shy can make it hard to tell someone to leave you alone.
LIBRA (September 23 – October 22)
This is about the worst situation a Libra can be in. You hate confrontation, so if your marriage is peaceful and someone comes to mess with that, you don’t know what to do. You’d rather run, but the guy will just chase after you. All you can do is hope the guy gives up.
SCORPIO (October 23 – November 21)
If he keeps hitting on a married Scorpio, he must just be a glutton for punishment. Your personality can be pretty strong, but also aggressive. For some guys that’s what they like, so they’re just going to keep coming back for more rejection.
SAGITTARIUS (November 22 – December 21)
A Sagittarius is a fun person. You’re all about freedom, energy and making a few jokes. Plenty of guys like that. The first couple of moves probably won’t bother you too much, but you’re bound to snap eventually at the guy who just won’t give up.
CAPRICORN (December 22 – January 19)
Capricorns are stable, but also somewhat harsh people. It’s honestly a mystery why he keeps trying to get you to go out with him. You know you won’t budge, why doesn’t he understand that?
AQUARIUS (January 20 – February 18)
For an Aquarius, it’s because of your passion for causes. That fight in you has to be good for more than just carrying a picket sign, right (or so the guy may think).
PISCES (February 19 – March 20)
A Pisces is a kind soul and can seem soothing to others. It’s natural for anyone to seek out a person like that. But that doesn’t mean you’re easy either. All you hope is that once you tell the guy no, he doesn’t come back.
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Jesse Oakley is writer who writes about love, relationships and self-care.