How To Seduce Each Of The Zodiac Signs
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weheartit Ah, the art of seduction. Wouldn’t it be a pleasure if our seductive pursuits worked every time? Some people try too hard, some don’t try enough... and some simply get it wrong for all their efforts.
Perhaps one of the reasons we sometimes fail at seduction is because we’re attempting to seduce by using stereotypes — like chocolate or roses.
Maybe we put on clothes that we think are sexy yet are repulsive to the person we desire. Maybe we think that showing cleavage is what does the trick, and maybe we think talking about our bank account is what's going to seal the deal.
But the truth is, all those "sexy" stereotypes are kindergarten stuff when it comes to the real art of seduction. You can’t possibly seduce an individual by assuming they are identical in every way to another because they’re not.
The "one size fits all" method of seduction is for those who have no imagination and cannot be bothered with the creative side of things. Each sign has specific desires, and if you are smart enough to appeal to what is not only aesthetically pleasing to each sign of the zodiac but to what they really want in romance and sex, then you may find yourself graduating from Casanova University with valedictorian status.
Creativity is, in itself, an amazing aphrodisiac, though I’m certainly not putting down chocolate! Coming up with something original and uniquely "you" could be just the thing to win the heart (and libido) of your paramour. And if you are clever, you might look into what their sign is first, and then plan accordingly.
If your partner-to-be is a sign that shies away from certain types of behavior, you may want to know that in advance and prepare accordingly. What’s your best method of seduction, according to astrology? Let’s take a look at how to seduce each zodiac sign.
ARIES (March 21 - April 19)
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Listen to them. Aries have a lot to say, and much of it may be incredibly interesting. These folks are great teachers, and while you may find them hot as hell, you’ll stand a greater chance at seducing them if you let them speak their minds. They’ll see you as compassionate and interested, and that, in turn, will make them interested in you.
Read: The 13 Brutal Truths About Loving An Aries, As Written By One
TAURUS (April 20 - May 20)
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Honor them for what they do creatively. Taurus is often times praised for their work and efforts but is rarely seen as the artist they want to be seen as. These are highly creative folks, so give them the kudos they need, rather than assume they are there only for the workload. Taurus comes alive sexually when they are appreciated as individuals.
Read: The 5 Brutal Truths About Loving A Taurus, As Written By One
GEMINI (May 21 - June 20)
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Let them please you. Gemini has a need to please — and oh yes, they desire the same pleasure as you do, but it’s very important to the Gemini lover that you understand how much they are willing to do for you. Don’t discount their efforts. Yes, they may be sentimental, but if you want to seduce a Gemini, let them feel as though their efforts are both brilliant and desired.
Read: The 13 Brutal Truths About Loving A Gemini, As Written By One
CANCER (June 21 - July 22)
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Read: The 5 Brutal Truths About Loving A Cancer, As Written By One
LEO (July 23 - August 22)
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To seduce a Leo, you may want to have an intense sense of humor, as Leos are very fond of laughing and having a good time. Sure, they’ll notice your good looks and attractive outfit, but there is nothing that gets them as high as laughing with a lover. One thing leads to another very quickly with these lovely lovers of seduction.
Read: 6 Brutal Truths About Loving A Leo, As Written By One
VIRGO (August 23 - September 22)
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Virgo loves things. Yes, things. I wouldn’t say they are stereotypical, but if there’s any sign of the zodiac that really does appreciate the flowers, candy, and jewelry, it’s our friend Virgo. What’s nice to know is that they also don’t need you to spend money, so the little tokens of seduction work just as well as the grand scale efforts.
Read: 7 Brutal Truths About Loving A Virgo (As Written By A Virgo)
LIBRA (September 23 - October 22)
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If you want to seduce a Libra, then keep your passion on a low-burn. Oh yes, they’ll take you up on all that fire once you’re beneath the sheets, but if you want to appeal to that Libra lover, don’t scare them away with histrionics and high drama, as that tends to make them shut down. Libras are seduced very easily by easy going natures, especially if they know that beneath your cool exterior, you’re a fireball in the bedroom.
Read: 11 Brutal Truths About Loving A Libra, As Written By One
SCORPIO (October 23 - November 21)
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Here we have another sign that likes materialistic efforts, but even more so than Virgo, our Scorpio friends enjoy well-appointed fineries. Sweet rides, haute couture, late night dinners at expensive restaurants? Oh, baby, that’s going to do it for the Scorpio. And don’t forget, casually mentioning that you’re a kinky SOB may just do the trick too.
Read: 14 Brutal Truths About Loving A Scorpio, As Written By One
SAGITTARIUS (November 22 - December 21)
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Flattery gets you everywhere with our Sagittarius friends. They love it. And the more you pay attention, the more they will pay attention in return, but make that flattery real. Appeal to who they really are as they want to be both taken seriously and loved for who they are. Just don’t say, “Smile, you’re so much prettier when you smile.” Unless, of course, you like watching a Sagittarius walk away.
Read: 7 Brutal Truths About Loving A Sagittarius, As Written By One
CAPRICORN (December 22 - January 19)
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If you want to seduce a Capricorn, show them what you have in common with them. Caps have an intense sense of "what’s cool" and if what you think is cool gels with what they think is cool, then your chance of bumpin’ uglies with Capricorn will definitely go into full effect. Do your research, too. These folks are smart cookies, and they’ll know if you’re BSing them.
Read: 7 Brutal Truths About Loving A Capricorn, As Written By One
AQUARIUS (January 20 - February 18)
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Visuals. Plainly speaking, if you happen to be the "type" Aquarius likes, you’ll happen to be the type that gets on the good side of them. While they are keen on good conversation and being respected (take note), they also have their eyes on the prize and that prize always revolves around aesthetics. If you want to seduce an Aquarius, then look the part.
Read: 7 Brutal Truths About Loving An Aquarius, As Written By One
PISCES (February 19 - March 20)
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While Pisces aren’t all sweetness and light as we’d make them out to be, you may want to show them that you’re a loyal person who has good intentions. “I want to jump your bones” may be good for the second or third date, but that initial seduction has got to be about you being a good person who is genuinely interested in them and means them no harm.
Read: 7 Brutal Truths About Loving A Pisces, As Written By One