Men Who Know How To Make A Woman Orgasm Do These 13 Things In Bed
Start taking notes, gentlemen...
weheartit Sex is one of the most satisfying experiences anyone can have, especially when you know how to wow your partner with toe-curling, bed-gripping moves sure to bring her to orgasm.
If you want to know how to make a woman orgasm, first you have to have an idea of what woman LOVE in bed.
Look no further, guys …
Here’s the ultimate list of the 13 hottest things men can do in bed to drive a woman wild!
1. Make noise.
This is an easy one — and should be common knowledge — but surprisingly, there are guys who like to keep their lips sealed during sex. Lots of ‘em.
There’s something liberating and primal about letting out moans, growls, pants, and even screams during sex. It feels animalistic and raw, which will make her feel like a sex goddess — and super awesome that she can give you pleasure like that.
2. Look at her with that I-gotta-have-you-right-now urgency.
There’s nothing hotter than that knowing glance you and your partner give each other right before you rip each other's clothes off.
Look at her with raw passion and excitement. Tell her with your eyes that you’re already undressing her in your mind. Show her that you have to have her — right now, right here — and you cannot wait even one second more.
3. Build the excitement and anticipation.
Once you’re both hot and heavy, allow the excitement and anticipation to grow. A great way to do this is to trace her body, concentrating on each part, as you slowly move from her collar bone to her breasts to her panty line... and then finally below her belt.
Getting every inch of her excited will put her sensations into overdrive and get her begging for more.
4. Work it with confidence.
Even if you’re not very experienced, you can definitely exude enough confidence in the bedroom to seem like a pro.
Shoot her a wide smile rather than a nervous grin. Let your eyes shine with passion rather than flicker with nerves. Feel assured and powerful with your movements, rather than testing and shy.
Even if you’re not sure what you’re doing, she’ll think you are!
5. Don’t forget to explore her entire bodies.
Sure, you may be engaged down below, but that doesn’t mean you’re off the hook for getting a little more hands-on. There are many more places to touch on a woman's body than her vagina, clitoris, bottom, and breasts.
Caress her curves. Kiss her collarbone and neck. Play with her hair. It will make her feel like our entire body is being enjoyed, rather than just what’s going on under her panties.
6. Lift her up — literally.
That’s right, put those muscles you’ve been working at the gym to good use. Wrap them around her sides and lift her up! She won’t care where.
You could pin her to the wall, throw her on the bed or bend her over a desk. Just use that strength to give her a sensational, erotic, spontaneous experience.
7. Compliment her.
She might not have the hottest butt you’ve ever seen, but you'd better tell her it is!
There’s nothing better than feeling like a vixen in the bedroom, and your encouragement can help her release her inner sex kitten. She’ll always enjoy hearing it!
8. Dominate her.
This may not be for everyone, and you certainly don’t have to be Christian Grey in the bedroom, but taking control can absolutely be a turn-on.
Push her against a wall. Tell her how you want her. Tear her clothes off and talk dirty to her!
As long as your partner is equally enthusiastic about it, Dominance and submission can be a total turn on.
9. Listen to her.
Everyone is different, so listen to your partner’s moans to get an idea of her favorite hot spots.
If you’re unsure, simply ask where she loves to be touched, and what kinds of touch bring her to orgasm so you can tailor the entire experience to best suit her desires.
10. Don't be afraid to let her see you sweat.
Not, like, dripping with sweat. But if you’re a little wet to the touch, that’s a total turn on. It lets her know you’re enjoying yourself and that you’re putting in as much effort as she is.
It may not be the most glamorous thing in the world, but it definitely adds to that animalistic passion and release.
11. Experiment with her.
Try touches and motions that are fast, slow, gentle, passionate, tickling, and rough.
Try sex in a new place, outdoors, or in the middle of the night. Incorporate a new toy, some role play, edible treats, or something even kinkier. It may surprise you what turns you both on!
12. Encourage her.
Did you love that thing she just did with her tongue? Were you totally turned on when she whipped her hair around? Let her know!
It’s a huge turn-on to know for women when we know we're doing a good job, and once we know what feels fabulous for you, we can repeat it!
13. Communicate with her.
Just like women love encouragement, we also don’t mind some kindly offered critique. Tell her if you want her to go faster, harder, or a little to the left. I promise she won’t mind. Most women will be more than happy to tailor the routine to fit your preferences.
Hell, if you were doing something wrong, she’d certainly tell you!
So go ahead, let yourself be heard, and tell her how you like it!
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