7 Kinky Sex Positions To Try When You Want It HOT AND ROUGH

Every woman has a freaky side. It usually just takes the right guy in the right environment to entice her out.

"Sometimes it's the littlest things, like doggy style with his hands wrapped around your body, his fingers in your mouth, and you biting down with your teeth while swirling your tongue around his fingertips," says dating expert Laurel House.

But aside from these little kinky things, it's also all about using your imagination.

"As far as kinky sex positions go, I like any sex position that offers an opportunity for imaginative sex," says Magnus Sullivan of Better than the Hand. "And it’s important to keep in mind that, for the women who do not orgasm from penetration, no position ensures that she’s getting what she needs: Which is a really nice buzz around her clit. So if your 'favorite position' does not include a toy or include her masturbating, then your position, no matter how contorted, is all about the man."

So, while you might try different sex positions to really get things heated in the bedroom, you can still fall short. That's why it's essential that couples everywhere try these kinky sex positions that will blow your mind.

1. Missionary

Missionary may have a vanilla reputation, but it's actually incredibly versatile if you are feeling creative.

"Maybe it's missionary with him sitting on top of you riding you, you writhing beneath him, and he spits into your mouth, your tongue sticking out to catch it before he leans down and kisses you with such ferocity that you both are covered in each other's spit and sweat," says House.

2. Doggy Style

"Whether you're brandishing a c*ck or a strap-on, bend your lover over at the waist for deep, hard penetration. Grab their hips while you thrust, pulling them back into you even harder. This position is just begging for a spanking," says adult film star, producer, and educator Jessica Drake.

3. Standing Missionary

"When the action is so hot you can't even make it to the bed, this position keeps you face to face as you make out while you grope each other. Slide over slightly and engage in some steamy masturbation, and remember to use lube, even if you're not having PIV (penis in vagina) sex," says Drake.

4. Flat Doggy

Pin your partner down on the bed with their legs closed tightly together and grind upwards as you enter them. "Not only does this hit all the right spots, it also allows for some serious hair-pulling and dirty talk if they're down," says Drake.

5. Bound Doggy

This position can be used with handcuffs or wrist cuffs for the adventurous couple who enjoys using toys during erotic play.  

"The receiving partner stands at the edge of the bed with their hands behind their back and their face planted into a pillow at the edge of the bed. The giving partner stands behind the receiving partner and holds them by the wrists, hips or at the back of the neck to hold them in place. This kinky sex position can cut off the receiving partner's air supply so be aware during rough play.

Establish some type of safe signal that will serve as the signal that play is too rough. The receiving partner should bend their knees slightly to avoid locking them. This position can be used with shallow strokes to stimulate the vaginal or anal opening and can be used with longer strokes for A-spot stimulation on the cervix and deeper anal penetration," says sexpert Tyomi Morgan.

6. Blindfolded Chair Tease

"One that accomplishes this quite well is tying my partner to a chair and blindfolding her. I like to walk around her, touching her hair gently, running my fingers up her legs and telling her how I often I masturbate to her and what I imagine us doing when I masturbate. When my penis is hard, I remove the blindfold just so she can see me fully erect. Then put it back on.

Run your hands up her thighs and feel her wet vagina. I tell her how hard I am and I run the tip of my penis by her mouth. After a moment of silence and when I feel she’s ready, I turn on a vibrator that she likes and run it down her shoulders, over her nipples, over her thighs before I tell her to spread her legs. I like to lick my fingers and run them over her labia as I work the vibrator closer to her clit, running it around her vagina until she’s swollen and wet, and then I get her off," says Sullivan.

7. Standing Against A Window

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"Try a hotel room, pushed up against the window! For some, there's something sexy about the voyeuristic element. And when you feel like you're being kind of naughty — when you feel like someone might see — that can entice your inner beast to come out," advises House.