5 Tips To Help You Find A Super SEXY (And Safe) Online Orgy
Ready for some MAJOR fun...?
Weheartit When episode five of Sex with Sunny Megatron (#TheMoreTheMerrier) aired on Showtime and then on The Movie Channel in Eastern Canada, I was inundated with emails asking for the name of the website that offers online orgies.
Emails like these came in fast and furious:
- "We just watched the more the merrier episode and loved the internet orgy segment! What’s the best live orgy website to use?"
- "What service offers online orgies?"
- "I’ve been Googling and can’t find where to join a cyber orgy, HELP!"
- "Hi Sunny! Me and my husband were interested in information about the online orgy site."
That’s just a few of the many notes I received!
There actually is no specific sex website to my knowledge that caters to those interested in the type of online orgy featured on the show, even though they happen in cyberspace all the time. It takes a bit more work than simply signing into a website, joining an orgy room, and having fun.
And so, here are five tips to help you find the online orgy of your dreams:
1. Find a meeting website.
In that episode, I explain, “An internet orgy is by invite only. It is usually set up by social media and the invite list is closely monitored. Usually, everybody knows each other. What you’ll need is a good computer, webcasting service, and a high-speed internet connection."
Meaning, the hosts meet the people ahead of time elsewhere on the web. I suggest going to websites like Fetlife, Kasidie, Swing Lifestyle, Swinger Zone Central, etc. Fetlife is a free site that caters to those into kink although you can find some folks who fall more on the vanilla side there. The other sites are generally for couples seeking other couples for sex.
2. Start a dialogue.
Each website has areas where you can post questions or state what you’re looking for. To start out, search for others interested in cyber orgies or start your own “looking for” post on the subject. Spend time getting to know the people that reply before you just jump on camera. As I mentioned in the episode, many folks hesitate about getting naked online with people they just met for security and safety reasons. Take the time to develop a rapport with those you interact with and only proceed to camming once everyone feels comfortable with each other.
3. Examine safety/privacy considerations.
Remember, you don’t have to let it all hang out on your webcam. If you’re worried about being recognized or recorded you can certainly wear a mask, wig, or angle the camera in a way that you face isn’t ever shown at the same time your nude body is. Remember Cole? He showed us his face and his well endowed nether regions but never at the same time. He was very careful to never let his face and dick appear on the screen together. This was to prevent anyone from taking a screen capture that positively identified him as a naked man on the internet.
4. Select a video conferencing service.
Once you narrow down who the participants will be, schedule your orgy using your favorite video conferencing service and exchange screen names. Many use either Skype or Google Hangout. Skype and personal Google Hangout accounts allow up to 10 cameras at once.
Wait a minute — isn’t nudity on these services against their terms of service?!
Technically YES. Both Skype and Google Hangout specify that nudity and the transmission of “inappropriate” images are not allowed. You will be using a private video chat, however, which is generally believed not monitored by the service (this changes if your Google Hangout is broadcasting live on Youtube via Hangout On Air, so make sure not to do that!).
Now, I’m not condoning breaking the rules. I’m simply stating this is how thousands of people have 1 on 1 and multi-camera online orgies every day. Do with that information what you will. (wink wink.)
I also suggest making a separate account for your naked Skype and Hangout escapades. That way you aren’t jeopardizing an account you use for other things in the unlikely event it is terminated for violating the terms of service.
5. Have fun!
That’s it! You now know the secret to having your very own online orgy!
Remember, the beauty of an online orgy is that you can dive in easily and also end it easily.
If it isn’t quite what you expected, all you have to do is shut off your computer.
Have you had multi-person cybersex before?
Are there other services you use? If so, how may participants do they allow? If you host, is there anything you like doing to break the ice and get the party started?
Some people play virtual strip poker or truth or dare games to loosen people up. Do you have any best practices or success and disaster stories?
Please share your experiences!
Sunny Megatron is a sexuality educator, sex and relationship writer, media personality, and pleasure products expert. She’s also the host and executive producer of the groundbreaking, sex-positive Showtime original television series, Sex with Sunny Megatron. Her approachable demeanor and infectious humor put audiences at ease in the sell-out sexuality workshops and university guest lectures she co-teaches with sex educator and Sex with Sunny Megatron consulting producer, Ken Melvoin-Berg. Named one of the 6 most savvy sexologists in North America, Sunny’s popular sex ed Youtube channel features sex tips, tours of interesting sexy places, and plenty of reviews of the latest pleasure toys, as her passion is helping people become their authentic, sexual selves by learning to overcome shame and shed inhibitions.