What Will SERIOUSLY Impress Him, According To His Zodiac Sign
Let him know how much he's appreciated.
weheartit Do you sometimes make your relationship all about what you need? I know that we have the best of intentions when it comes to being with a partner, but there are times when we make it all about ourselves and getting the support and affection that we need.
Although traditionally speaking, women are often thought of (wrongly) as the more emotional and needy one in a relationship, men have their emotional needs as well. They aren't stoic and strong every minute of every day, and just because they may seem fine with being the one whose responsibility it is to make their partner feel loved and special, they need to feel cared about, too.
For any relationship to work, it needs both parties to make an effort. You do things for your partner and they do things for you.
No one keeps track of one's kindnesses, and no one should feel as if they’re being forced. You do things to show your partner how much you care about them and their well-being in both your interests.
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One of the best aspects of a romantic partnership is when you feel as if someone is looking out for you and has your back. And wouldn’t you want your partner to feel that kind of love as well?
Even if you’re the most self-centered person on the planet, you probably know that the more love and caring you give of yourself, the more you’ll get back.
It isn’t that you’re taking the focus away from what you want or feel you deserve, you’re just treating your loved one the way that you’d like to be treated. Your boyfriend or husband may want completely different things than you, but it doesn’t mean they aren’t valid and that you shouldn’t try to do them.
Of course, I'm not advocating that you throw your needs away, I'm just saying to be sure to include your man's needs in the mix. Here’s what men want you to do, based on their zodiac sign.
Aries (March 21 - April 19)
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You may not consider yourself outdoorsy at all, but you'll make big points if you indulge in your guy's love of the great outdoors and go camping with him. If roughing it isn't your thing, maybe you can compromise and go glamping.
Read: The 13 Brutal Truths About Loving An Aries, As Written By One
Taurus (April 20 - May 20)
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Touch him, and not just in a sexual way. Scratch his back, rub his shoulder, and give him a massage. Taurus crave touching and even putting your arm around him at the movies will make him so happy.
Read: The 5 Brutal Truths About Loving A Taurus, As Written By One
Gemini (May 21 - June 20)
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You know how great it can be to have a girl's night out, so return the favor and encourage your partner to hang out with his boys. Sometimes he needs to watch the game, drink some beer, or play cards with the guys.
Read: The 13 Brutal Truths About Loving A Gemini, As Written By One
Cancer (June 21 - July 22)
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Let him know that it's OK for him to vent to you about what's bothering him. He needs to know that you're not going to turn against him if he shows his vulnerable and emotional side to you.
Read: The 5 Brutal Truths About Loving A Cancer, As Written By One
Leo (July 23 - August 22)
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Leos like to be seen and they like their partners to look on point, so wear that outfit you know he loves. You may not think it's the most flattering outfit you have, but seeing you in it will get him worked up.
Read: 6 Brutal Truths About Loving A Leo, As Written By One
Virgo (August 23 - September 22)
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Virgos know that they are brilliant and can solve practically any problem, but they have their moments of self-doubt just like anybody. He might not ever tell you but he'd like you to compliment him. By praising him, you'll make him feel appreciated and it will help to build up his confidence.
Read: 7 Brutal Truths About Loving A Virgo (As Written By A Virgo)
Libra (September 23 - October 22)
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When you're arguing, try to see things from his perspective and be understanding. Don't immediately confront him about his failings and give all kinds of evidence to why he's wrong. Take a step back and put yourself in his shoes. Everybody wants to be understood.
Read: 11 Brutal Truths About Loving A Libra, As Written By One
Scorpio (October 23 - November 21)
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Your Scorpio man would love it if you gave him all of your attention (not always, just occasionally). That's right, turn all your devices off, stop thinking about everything you have to do tomorrow, and focus on him. This will show him how much he means to you.
Read: 14 Brutal Truths About Loving A Scorpio, As Written By One
Sagittarius (November 22 - December 21)
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He has all kinds of wonderful plans and ideas for travel and trying new things. What you can do that will demonstrate that his needs are important to you is to step out of your comfort zone. Agree to try things like exotic foods instead of refusing to even think about tasting them, or agree to go on a trip to somewhere you don't have any interest in going because he's so excited about traveling there.
Read: 7 Brutal Truths About Loving A Sagittarius, As Written By One
Capricorn (December 22 - January 19)
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Pick up the tab. Since he's a Capricorn, he most likely tends to pay for everything, so take him out for a change. Pay for dinner AND a show. You'll show him that you have a handle on your own finances (something he'll find both sexy and reassuring) and that you're not in the relationship just for what you can get.
Read: 7 Brutal Truths About Loving A Capricorn, As Written By One
Aquarius (January 20 - February 18)
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The best thing that you can do is to have your own life that includes doing stuff on your own and being independent. You want to spend time with him but your happiness isn't dependent on him; you can make things happen for yourself.
Read: 7 Brutal Truths About Loving An Aquarius, As Written By One
Pisces (February 19 - March 20)
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It's kind of cliché that the man sends the woman flowers or gives her candy, so change things up a bit and make the grand gesture. You send the flowers or write him a song about how much you love him and how he inspires you every day.
Read: 7 Brutal Truths About Loving A Pisces, As Written By One