The Guy You Don't Date But Probably Should, Based On The Zodiac

Do you tend to date the same kind of people repeatedly? Do you have a list of qualities that you’re looking for in a partner or are there things you absolutely can’t stand?

We all have certain types of people that we gravitate to, even when we’ve been hurt by them in the past, but there are some dealbreaker characteristics that we simply can’t overlook so we know not to consider them as dateable.

There are times when we can be too rigid in what we want and demand in others. As we mature, we become more flexible; characteristics that seemed insurmountable in the past become less serious and things that we can live with.

If you don’t give someone a chance, you won’t find out that, while they may have a relationship dealbreaker or two, they also are generous and supportive.

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There are also times when we don’t know what it is that we need in a partner until we have it. How many times have you seen — in books, movies, and television — that couples who can’t stand each other at first and swear to have nothing in common, find that that person had a whole set of qualities that made them hugely desirable. Charlotte in Sex and the City found Harry completely obnoxious, only to end up married to him and blissfully happy.

Sometimes we must go against what we think we know and date outside the box we’ve made for ourselves. When you’re open to more possibilities, it’s amazing what you can discover.

However, when ignoring things such as relationship dealbreakers, it can be scary. You’re not only taking a chance on another person, you’re trusting yourself that you’ll be able to handle whatever happens, the good or bad.

Astrology can help you see which types of people you should reconsider your no-dating policy for and give a chance. Here’s the guy you'd never date but probably have the best zodiac compatibility with, according to your zodiac sign.

Aries (March 21 - April 19)

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You'd never date a guy who was very chill and laid back, but it would be good for you to learn how important it is sometimes to take a moment to appreciate the now.

Read: The 13 Brutal Truths About Loving An Aries, As Written By One

Taurus (April 20 - May 20)

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You would never even consider dating someone who was spontaneous and unpredictable, but you should. If you went out with someone who kept you guessing, you'd learn to like surprises and the unplanned, and it could break down some of the barriers you put up.

Read: The 5 Brutal Truths About Loving A Taurus, As Written By One

Gemini (May 21 - June 20)

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You'd never date someone who couldn't keep up with your witty banter, but then you'll never know the joy of having someone completely enthralled by your humor and your way with words. Never underestimate the power of having an appreciative audience.

Read: The 13 Brutal Truths About Loving A Gemini, As Written By One

Cancer (June 21 - July 22)

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You'd never date someone practical and reserved. You tend to be very open with your emotions and you assume that someone who doesn't share their feelings easily would be judgmental about yours. The truth is that someone who is reserved and guarded may view emotions as extremely important and would listen to you very carefully with wisdom and understanding.

Read: The 5 Brutal Truths About Loving A Cancer, As Written By One

Leo (July 23 - August 22)

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You'd never date a free-spirited crunchy granola type as you like people to support your dazzling personality. It would be good for you to date someone like this so that you could gain a better appreciation of nature and develop a more natural side to your personality. It takes a lot of energy to constantly be on point and it's good for all divas to occasionally relax. Glamping was made for you. 

Read: 6 Brutal Truths About Loving A Leo, As Written By One

Virgo (August 23 - September 22)

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You'd never date someone who was super-competitive because, with your high standards and your desire for perfectionism, it would drive you a little insane. But when we compete with someone who is as good as we are or better, we become better. If you go out with a competitive person, you'll find yourself challenged and exhilarated.

Read: 7 Brutal Truths About Loving A Virgo (As Written By A Virgo)

Libra (September 23 - October 22)

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You'd never date a guy that your friends didn't absolutely love, but sometimes it's good for you to decide for yourself if you want to get to know someone. Your friends love you and want what's best for you, but there are times when you need to date someone entirely inappropriate to find out what it is that you must have in a partner.

Read: 11 Brutal Truths About Loving A Libra, As Written By One

Scorpio (October 23 - November 21)

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You'd never date a humanitarian/activist because you think that they wouldn't be focused enough on you. The thing is that you're all about passion, and someone who is fighting for a good cause is also passionate. They might make a good match for you in terms of intensity and strength of conviction.

Read: 14 Brutal Truths About Loving A Scorpio, As Written By One

Sagittarius (November 22 - December 21)

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You probably wouldn't consider dating someone who was introspected. You like to go out, socialize, and experience new things, and someone who is more introspective is more comfortable when they're not around people. But one of the things you love best are conversations about deep, intense subjects, and someone who spends their time thinking and coming up with ideas and theories is just the kind of person you'd enjoy communicating with.

Read: 7 Brutal Truths About Loving A Sagittarius, As Written By One

Capricorn (December 22 - January 19)

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You'd never date anyone you thought wasn't financially stable. If you dated someone who wasn't especially dependable but they were fun, you could express your less serious and responsible side. Let them be your Vegas person — the kind of person who encourages you to step outside your comfort zone and be a bit wild for an evening.

Read: 7 Brutal Truths About Loving A Capricorn, As Written By One

Aquarius (January 20 - February 18)

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You tend to avoid dating the people who are overtly sexual as they tend to unsettle you, but sometimes it's good to date someone for purely sexual reasons. You're independent and have no problem being unlike anybody else, so if you date someone unapologetically sensual, you might discover a kinkier side to yourself.

Read: 7 Brutal Truths About Loving An Aquarius, As Written By One

Pisces (February 19 - March 20)

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You'd never date someone who you felt was too sensible. Let's be honest: you have enough imagination and dreams for two people and you're also scarily unselfish. Wouldn't it be a nice change to date someone that treated you well and always had enough money to cover the check? There are definite benefits to being with someone with a good head on their strong shoulders.

Read: 7 Brutal Truths About Loving A Pisces, As Written By One