10 Best BDSM Sex Positions For Kinky Couples Who Like To Get Down

Feeling like adding some kink to your sex life and really making things fun? You're in luck. There are great sex positions that can give you a whole new edge to your nighttime fun.

"I love playing a submissive role — handcuffed and blindfolded. I crawl on my knees, searching for my husband around the house. When I finally find him, I seduce him and get him off with no hands and no sight," says Beverly of MotorBunny.com.

Whether you're playing the part of the submissive or the dominant, here are 10 sex positions you absolutely must try for the ultimate kinky experience.

1. Up Against the Wall

This is a classic position in which the man is the dominant partner.

"Whether it’s against a bedroom wall or somewhere else around the house (or outdoors!), a woman allowing her partner to pick her up requires a great deal of trust, as he needs to support her body completely. It also promotes a great deal of intimacy when done facing each other, and if she wraps her legs around his hips, he's able to pin her arms to the wall," says sexpert Coleen Singer of Sssh.com.

2. Doggy Style

Another classic sex position in which the man is the dominant partner.

"Aside from the obvious that the man is in complete control of the penetration, doggy style is the perfect position to blindfold her. While he's thrusting, add in some other sensory play such as spanking, paddling, and anal fingering if she consents to that," says Singer.

3. Missionary With Legs Extended

As she lays on her back, he raises her legs in the air and spreads them as far apart as they will comfortably go.

"As he restrains her with his hands by the ankles in that position and deeply penetrates her, this is also a great opportunity for some dirty talk. As her hands are free, she also has the opportunity to rub her clit like the naughty girl she is, and even pinch his nipples to take back a bit of sexual dominance from him," says Singer.

4. Spread-Eagled and Restrained to Bed Blindfolded

Whichever partner is going to be the submissive is blindfolded while laying on the bed. The restraints can take the form of wrist and ankle cuffs (fur-lined leather ones are the most comfortable) which then can be tied to the headboard and foot of the bed with soft rope.

"This then allows the man to both penetrate her, use sex toys on her, and use other sensory play such as ice cubes or feathers. If the woman is the 'top' she can ride him cowgirl or reverse cowgirl style, and/or give him a handjob and oral sex," says Singer.

5. Swing Like A Star

Although hanging a sex swing in your home will require securely installing a sturdy eyebolt into a beam overhead, sex swings are available in many shapes and forms from online stores, and really add some kinkiness to your sex life.

"Depending on the type of swing, these allow for a good variety of positions while the woman is sitting on it, and gives the man a great deal of control when positioning her arms and legs for utmost penetration pleasure," says Singer.

6. Begging For A Pegging

Although this is certainly not for every couple, a lot of men really enjoy being penetrated anally. A sure-fire kinky way to do this is having her don a strap-on dildo and take control.

"She can either penetrate him from behind in a doggy style position, on his back in the kinky missionary position described above or even standing with him bent over a chair while she enters him from behind," says Singer.

Hint: If you're considering trying this, be sure to use lube... lots of lube.

7. Modified Doggy Style

There are many ways to modify this animalistic position, which is sure to please the kinkiest of couples.

"Add a blindfold, your favorite bondage technique or a ball gag. You can add sense play activities, as well," says Antonia Hall, MA.  a psychologist, relationship expert and the award-winning author of The Ultimate Guide to a Multi-Orgasmic Life.   

8. Kneeling

The submissive kneels and fulfills his or her master's wishes, from toe sucking to oral gratification.

9. Frogtie

This is a classic bondage technique in which the submissive's legs are tied ankle to thigh, leaving them frog-legged.

"It is also possible to tie their hands to their ankles or boxtie their hands behind their backs. The submissive is left restricted, but still able to crawl and maintain some mobility while frogtied. It provides plenty of access for the dominant to take her in the positions of his choosing," says Hall. 

10. Frontal Crown

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In this oral sex position, the dominant straddles the submissive's face to receive oral gratification from his/her slave.

"This is a hot position for men and women, offering powerful control and pleasure," says Hall.