The 7 BEST Sex Positions To Stimulate His Anus

As in all things, there are different strokes for different folks. When having sex, you may or may not be into butt play. For some, it's an acquired taste. But there's all sorts of ways to stimulate his anus while having your fun.

Put your stereotypes away, friends. Anal stimulation isn't just for gay men! Many men who enjoy having sex with women also enjoy having their anus stimulated. Of course, not all agree. But it can be incredibly pleasurable, so it's worth broaching a conversation to find out. 

"To be honest, I'm not really sure about this. I'm not one looking for any anal stimulation on me, or even really what that fully means. I'd imagine the same as it would be for with women," says adult star Ryan Driller, who says for added play, either in Cowgirl or Doggy Style, where her ass is kind of spread, you can play with it a bit.

"For licking or penetrating, I'd say missionary, with her hips rolled up a little. This typically has been easier access for me, and more comfortable for the girl, to first accommodate my penis. Spoon is also a go-to first position for anal sex."

If you're not specifically talking intercourse positions, there are many ways for the two of you to get into position for anal stimulation, from pegging to fingering to analingus. But if you mean sex positions, "It depends a bit on body size relative to each other, but missionary can allow for reaching around to get to his anus. Scissoring can work, too," says Carol Queen, sexologist.

The possibilities are endless. You can stick to basic sex positions like missionary, or you can get a little funky and try something you've never tried before. Either way, he's sure to be bursting at the seams with pleasure, all thanks to you.

Here are several positions that can help you stimulate his prostate gland.

1. Hand job

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Having your man lie on his back, raise his legs and elevate his butt. You're in the position to both stroke his prostate and to give him a hand job.

2. Rim job

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Yes, that's a blow job, but to his butt. Don't knock it till you try it!

3. 69

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In the 69 position, you can reach up to stimulate his prostate internally or simply press his perineum to stimulate it from the outside, says Driller. Have him bend over the bed or a piece of furniture for prostate play with your hands, a toy or strap-on.

4. Use a sex toy

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"A great way to stimulate his anus is to introduce a non-threatening butt plug like the Dusk by We-Vibe during sex. It can add a new layer of excitement to standard vaginal sex in almost any position," says Tristan Weedmark.

5. Scissoring

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Moving legs back and forth in a way that mimics scissors can have all sorts of fun in sex play, but we mostly know of it in girl on girl fun. However, you can also use it to rub anuses against other anuses, or anuses against vaginas or penises, creating all sorts of stimulation no matter what your sex.

6. Pegging

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This one has gotten a ton of attention and it can be all sorts of fun, especially if you enjoy switching up the roles. She straps on a dildo or vibe, and uses it to penetrate his anus while you are having sex.

7. Missionary

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Believe it or not, what is known as the most basic of sex positions has tons of options for modifications, such as the opportunity to reach around and play with his butt.