12 Things Guys Wish Women Knew About Giving Blow Jobs
Take notes, ladies. You could learn a thing or two.
Let’s face it: Sex is a fundamental part of life and that makes blowjobs a vital part of life too.
Because oral sex is all about giving, it’s like saying “I love you” without actually saying it.
So, if you’re saying “I love you” to your guy this way, you’re going to want to do it the right way. Truth is, we don’t always do the best job.
We surveyed a group of almost 30 guys asking: “What do wish your partner understood about blowjobs?” Here’s what they had to say:
2. Get hands on!
“Please, please, please, please stop with the whole not using your hands thing! Unless you’re a BJ expert (which no offense most women aren’t) not using your hands just doesn’t feel good. You have hands for a reason, ladies! And giving BJ’s is part of that …” — Marcelo, 27
3. It's better than sex (sometimes)
“That blowjobs are pretty much better than sex, when done correctly.” — Levi, 22
4. Pause the making out
“The whole making out after you swallow … there’s toothpaste and mouthwash in my bathroom.” — Lenny, 25
6. Make ME comfortable
“Get in a position that’s comfortable for me and feels good for me. Just because it’s more comfortable for you to lay there doesn’t mean it feels good for me.” — Roberto, 27
7. My eyes are up here
“I wish more women knew to look at you every once in awhile during a blowjob. I always hear girls say it’s embarrassing and uncomfortable but it’s really not. Definitely makes for a better experience. — Harry, 27
8. Share the love
“There’s nothing wrong with touching, sucking or licking my balls.” — Gil, 28
“My balls need some love too!” — Ben, 27
9. Slow ‘er down
“We don’t always like it when you go quickly. Most times going slow and taking your time is just as nice. Especially when a girl literally just attacks your dick. Calm down! — Brett, 27
“Slow and steady wins the race.” — Will, 29
“Sometimes women feel like they need to be super aggressive and go hard when that’s not the case at all. I like something more slow where I can feel and appreciate what’s going on.” — Harris, 26
11. Eye candy, please!
“Get naked, or at least take your shirt off. It’s nice to have something to look at.” — Cam, 25
12. Be a trooper
“Swallowing never hurt.” — Mark, 27
“Spitters are quitters! Haha but seriously, it’s always nice when you swallow.” — Jeff, 24