Guys: Stop Forgetting These 7 Body Parts When We Get Busy!
We can't just dive right in.
weheartit By: Sujeiry Gonzalez
The first time I did the deed, the guy went straight for my vagina. He might have pecked me on the lips once or twice, and maybe he twisted my nipples to “turn me on." It happened so fast, that I only recall penis inside pepa.
But there are other body parts! As a matter of fact, women have many erogenous zones that need some TLC before their partner goes in for it.
Here are just a few of the body parts that men and women should definitely not ignore during sex:
1. Lips: Kiss me, you fool! That’s what you should say to your partner when their ignoring your lips. That’s because nibbling, sucking or simply kissing lips is a turn on for most women.
Besides, this isn’t Pretty Woman, and you’re not a prostitute. Bring them in close for a smooch!
2. Nipples: According to a study in The Journal of Sexual Medicine, the nipples are most sensitive body part to vibration. So, let him flick and lick your nipples all night long!
3. Neck: Whether he’s licking your neck from top to bottom or biting the nape of your neck as he’s doing you doggy style, you’re bound to get turned on.
And it has everything to do with the sternocleidomastoid (SCM), a muscle that connects the base of your skull to your sternum. In layman's terms, it helps you feel oh-so-good!
4. Ears: Aside from wax, your ears contain a large number of nerve endings and more than 120 acupressure points. Ask your partner to caress and nibble on your lobes while they whisper sweet nothings into your ear.
For bonus fun, have them gently massage your ears with one hand while they play with your clitoris with the other hand. Ooh la la!
5. Inner Thighs: Your inner thighs are for more than just flexing (I see you strengthening your legs at the gym!). In fact, they’re full of sensitive nerve endings that will titillate your core when touched.
Before your partner goes Down South, spread your legs and bury their face deep in your... muslos. It’s a perfect segue from juicy thighs to juicy lips.
6. Skin: The skin is the body’s largest organ, and it should be appreciated. Ask your man to caress your skin from head to toe. With soft and gentle fingertips, he should stroke your back, buttocks, arms, abdomen, inner thighs and forearms.
When your partner is ready, they should trade fingertips for tongue strokes.
7. Head: If you’re anything like me, you love going to the beauty salon to get your head rubbed while scrubbed. Well, your estilista isn’t the only person who can massage your scalp!
Tell your man to rub your scalp softly, and you can get those fuzzy tingles before sex, too. This stimulation will release serotonin and oxytocin, the pleasure hormones. It also increases blood flow just where you need it — ahem, your vagina!