Recently,  I've been getting messages from readers wanting to know why men stop calling without an explanation. This is a huge component of a single girl's dating life, so let's address it!

In my experience, I find that if a man disappears for good, it's because of one of two reasons. They are:

1. He did something wrong or hurtful

I've never met a man who liked facing me and admitting wrongdoing. Neither have my friends. I once explained it to a girl like this: A lot of men are all about pride and dignity. Women are too, but we know we can't … Read More

"What does my husband, boyfriend, or crush really think?" It seems to be an age-old question for women. But you know what? Guys also want to know what other guys really think about things, or at least I do. 

In fact, as the coeditor of The Good Men Project: Real Stories from the Front Lines of Modern Manhood, an anthology of first-person stories by men about manhood, I'm attempting to do what perhaps no man has done before: get guys to not only read about other men's thoughts on manhood, but also to speak honestly about their own experiences. We've … Read More

As impressionable young girls brainwashed by images of Pam Anderson (and slack jawed by her effect on men), many of us (foolishly) employed questionable clothing in the name of male approval. Got breasts? Let 'em pop, baby. Dress? Hike that hemline so high that sitting doubles as a gyno appointment. No bra, no problem. Too tight? Nay. Not tight enough. Dress Your Way to Better Sex

We were right, of course. Many a man's eye got a free all-day pass at our (practically) naked bodies. But oh how angry had we known an outfit out of Pam … Read More

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"What do men like about oral sex? I'm willing to put in the work when it comes to giving a blow job but it would be so helpful if someone could tell me what exactly men like." -Kataroo

We know men love sex, and especially oral sex. But what's so great about third base? Men and women from the YourTango community weigh in with advice, tips and insights.

To read what others had to say or to give your own advice, go here: What Do Men Like About Oral Sex?

Glamour blogger Shallon Lester brought to our attention a widespread problem plaguing our menfolk: guys seem to really dig crazy chicks. Yes Shallon, I have noticed this, too. But in the post, she gives only a few half-hearted explanations: "Personally, I think guys secretly like the drama. Maybe it makes them feel alive or brings some action to their otherwise dull lives. Or, perhaps it reminds them of the chaos of their own family life as a child (wow, how Dr. Phil am I today?) Or, they could just be weak guys who like being dominated and repressed." [Read More

A new scientific study has just "proven" what every female on the planet already knows: men like looking at breasts.

What's more, men don't just like looking at breasts, but nearly half of them (47 percent) will look at a woman's breasts before he looks at her face, and will look at them longer than any other body part.

The researchers behind this study, housed at New Zealand's University of Wellington, came to their conclusions by having their male subjects look at six pictures of the same woman. In each picture, the woman's face was the same. The size of … Read More

Men from different lovestages debate whether or not to move in with a girlfriend before marriage. Is it a necessary step to learning a partner's quirks? Does it spell disaster for the relationship? Watch five guys discuss the upsides and downsides to sharing a home with your partner before saying "I do." Their answers might surprise you!

YourTango's panel of five men discuss the ups and downs of life (and love) on Facebook.

We sat down 5 guys and picked their brain about what they really thought of Valentine's Day. From finding out your wife is cheating on you to spreading rose petals over a bed, these guys shared their most intimate (and embarrassing) thoughts on Valentine's Day. Watch the video for more of the male perspective on Valentine's Day.

The content in this week's "What On His Mind" isn't all that different from what on our own minds this week. They're rating sexy bloggers, we're rating 10 men hotter than Hugh Jackman. They've got tips on how to kiss, and so do we! Hmm, maybe gender differences are a myth, after all...

Tomfoolery tells us ladies to tread carefully when telling a guy what to do with his hair: "No one likes it when you assume you know what's best for them. And let's not pretend that personal grooming is something that dudes don’t … Read More