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whether to continue my relationship

Published on October 29, 2013 by pavithrac

hi, am ding my final year B.E..i fell in love wit a guy in my class at the frst year itself..after somedays i came to knw that he s not sure about our relationship..he started to move away..so i tot it wont wrk out..both moved apart..because of loneliness i fell for another guy and he was wise enough to use my loneliness,.he used me well..days passed and i came to knw tht this new guy is using me well and he doesn't ve any feelings on me..so i moved away from him also.now my previous love talked wit me and he s committed now..he always talks wit me..he says tht he likes me only and he wants to be wit me only but as he s committed now,he s not able to come to me..but i knw very well tht he has feelings fr me..he loves me..what shall i do now..?

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Not quite sure what to make of the situation, it's unclear towards the end. If he is in a relationship with someone else and telling you he loves you, bad sign. He is emotionally cheating on that other girl and probably telling her every day how much he loves her too. If a guy cheats with you he will cheat on you. There is more than one way to cheat on someone.

If he really wants to be with you, he will be with you. If he doesn't, he'll come up with excuses as to why and tell you what you want to hear so that he keeps you on the hook. You're his plan B. You're his backup plan in case this other things fails. That's not love.

Don't be anyone's backup plan. Be their road map!

Have standards for yourself and move on. Find someone who will love you and commit to you, not lead you on.

In the meantime, do yourself a favor and read/watch "He's just not that into you".

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