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Should I trust married man?

Published on December 27, 2012 by helpme

I having relationship with a married guy for over 2 years, he's 50 and I'm 30. He stay with wife but no touch, love, hug, nothing just live in same house ( separated bedroom) with an adopted son. I stay another country bcos of work but he always meet me once in 2-3 months for long holiday together , he said he cant leave me for long and he needs me in his life. Even we have long distance relationship but we feel so close as we make contact everyday since early morning and during the day until at night before go sleep or keep contact when outdoor business, driving, etc. We have no secret between each other. He always respect my feeling and tells me first if have to do business out with wife.

Over hundred times we had argument but now still move on and take care our relationship. One day I asked him our relationship, if he doesn't have plan to be free and stay together then I prefer to end up and leave him rather be the second woman.

He asked me 2 years to sort out his status. Now 1 year pass already, nothing happened only the more we meet, the more we close, the more I hurt.

Last 2 weeks we had a lovely romantic long holiday together over A week. He gave me commitment(?) he said his status will be sorted out in next 2-3 months won't take much long. He said he will divorce his wife and spend the rest of life together.

Today, he let me know that he and wife got invitation for holiday from close friend. I feel he excited to go, I asked him please don't go, respect my feeling and if he really plan to divorce in next few months then should hurt his wife by go holiday with her! I know him, he only want to have holiday for fun nothing related between him and his wife relationship. Anyhow he very angry and blamed me - he said I tried to control him! Which I did not, I really do hurt if he goes holiday with wife and close-friend's family.

I asked him again, did you really plan to get divorce and be together one day in future?" He said " YES" but don't know "When" I said " I can't wait forever" He said " I can't wait for long the same" Then I asked him to make myself stronger " will you get divorce, right?" He said " I don't know, if you need answer YES/NO then I have to say "NO" he told me he doesn't want to lie or give me fault hope, he he already lied enough. He thinks I pushed him too hard. His "No" was already destroyed my feeling , my love, my dreams. I feel like the end of the world!

I have no one to talk with as he's married. Anyone please help me?

-Will you do serious for plan to get divorce in future and be with me one day or not? I did not -he said " YES but don't know when!"

Please help me, what does he really meant? - can I still trust him? -what should I do? I love him very much. -I trust him all my heart until one sentence splinted out-" I had lied enough" I very much confused.. Please help me.

Please I need your help, help me.:((((

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corrected:

-I asked him please don't go, respect my feeling and if he really plan to divorce in next few months then *should not*hurt his wife by go holiday with her.

-Will you do serious for plan to get divorce in future and be with me one day or not? I did not *ask WHEN

he said " YES but don't know when!"

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