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My wife is having an affair
My wife is having an affair with a guy that lives 4 states away. She is an alcoholic and a nurse. This guy has put my name and number on gay craigslist post, he has texted me through some VTEXTsender threatening my family and kids. He has texted her through this same thing acting like he is me and he has texted my 20 year old daughter trying to act like me and sending her the most disgusting texts about her mother performing sex acts on her boyfriend in front of her. I don't have her families support and in fact her mom is in condoning her affair and doesn't care about her daughters alcohol problem. I have been to the police and they can't or won't track this guys phone number because he somehow uses a different number every time. He tells her it wasn't him that did it. He is 31 5 years younger then her and lives with his mom. She will very now and then come home and of course like an idiot I sleep with her and believe that she wants to work on our marriage. Only to find out that she meets up with this guy again. I have confronted this guy and he doesn't seem to care at all. She has lost two jobs in the last year because of the drinking. I love her with all my heart but don't know what to do. I have filed for divorce and have our 2 kids full time and she doesn't seem to care about them. She used to be the best mom and nurse and now she is this crazy person. She thinks she can fit into my 14 year olds clothes and she thinks she looks like she is 20. She used to be a very beautiful woman and can now see the drinking has taken its toll on her physically and mentally. Is there any chance to save my marriage or make her get help. I know shouldn't want anything to do with her but worry about her and when she is with my kids. I don't know why I can't let go of her. I have been with her since I was 22 so 16 years. Can anyone give me some advice on what to do and should I have hope to save my family and marriage.