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my girlfriend seems to have lost interest in having sex with me.Her reason being that she is tired.I understand that her job as a nurse can be tiring at times.Should I be worried?
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Is she tired (be honest - someone putting in long and stressful hours at work CAN easily be too exhausted for sex), or is she tired of YOU? Pretty much, a long-term couple that has very infrequent sex without some understandable explanation (exhaustion, health issues, stress, etc.) DOES have a problem.
Also, take a long, hard, honest look at yourself and your behavior, and ask yourself if you're hygiene and grooming need improvement, or if you're being a real jerk as of late (in which case, what woman WOULD want to have sex with you?)
My name is Lisa Shield and I am a dating expert on YourTango.com. For more inf. visit my website www.LisaShield.com It's one thing to be tired and another thing entirely to have "lost interest in having sex with you." I would think that there is something more going on here. Even if she is tired, the two of you can make a date night for sex. Busy couples do that all the time. My husband and I know that Sunday is our day together and, no matter how busy we are, we love each other so we make time for each other. I reiterate: something else is going on.
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