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My boyfriend is fighting with my brother and our friends.
Hi, My boyfriend and I have been together for 7 years now, but recently he has had a huge fight with my brother and all of our friends. He was friends with my brother before he met me, and ive been hanging out with all of them for years. Recently my boyfriend was too busy to spend time with them and got left out of a few things, which made him really angry. I didnt have much to do with it, and dont know everything that happened, but he apparently tried to talk things through and got told by my brother that he was too busy before so he had to miss out on things they planned to do without him. When my boyfriend felt excluded he started harassing everyone on facebook for weeks with abusive messages and it was horrible. Since then we all agreed that my boyfriend should spend some time apart from the group. I've still spent time with our friends but my boyfriend misses them, he is lonely and feels left out more than ever. He tells me he doesnt want me to stop seeing them but i know he would love it if i did. I have tried to get them to talk to each other, but they are both waiting for the other to apologise and my brother doesnt want me to be with him anymore. they had another fight this week and have decided to never talk to each other or go to any get togethers where the other would be present. Should make christmas fun. My boyfriend was angry he was being left out, and knows he went about it the wrong way, but our friends think that it doesnt matter because he over reacted and made their lived hell they want nothing more to do with him. does this mean i either need to loose my friends and my brother, or loose my boyfriend with whom ive spent a third of my life? we were talking about getting engaged next year. I dont know what to do