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It's complicated

Published on October 7, 2013 by nesby1

So i went with this guy for about 3months the first time then he broke up with me and turned around and got married then was going through a divorce then went back with me for about a month then broke up with me again for 10 monthe but now we are back together and this time im having him prove his self to me and he told me he loves me but i've lost almost all my love for him with everything else and i don't know how to tell him and so i kinda told him i love you to twice already i don't know how to tell him please help

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Dear "It's Complicated"

There's an old saying that makes people either nod their heads in agreement or cringe at the sound of hearing it - it says, "Honesty is the best policy." You're not doing you or him any favors by holding on when you're not feeling it. You can't blame yourself after what you've been through but enough time has gone by - together and apart. If you're feeling a little guilty being the bearer of bad tidings, that's perfectly normal, but if you need to bolster up your resolve, try remembering how it felt when he was able to leave you - for someone else. Love is on or love is off - there's no in between in affairs of the heart. Let him down honestly and gently - don't bring up the past (just use it in your mind for strength if you need it), just be in the now and tell him how you feel - right now. It's time to move on and live the rest of your life with someone who makes you "feel the love." Best of luck.

LJ Innes A Your Tango Expert

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