I want to recover from my total affair

Published on January 13, 2013 by diesel sled

I was in a 2 year total affair. It ended 3 years ago and my wife and I have put back together our family and marriage, however, I still feel I haven't "recovered" from it. Still deal with emotional baggage, longing, loneliness, etc.

Much of the books and reading material I have been able to find address "affair recovery" from the stand point of the person who what cheated on, which I understand, but I have not been able to find a good resource on how I can deal with and heal from my side of the affair.

Any information would be much appreciated and needed.