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How long do I wait?

Published on July 23, 2013 by lisab13

I've been hanging out with this guy for a while now, and I was wondering how long you wait until you have sex with someone. I don't want to be easy, but I also don't want to let him wait too long.

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That's a fantastic question - it's important to pick the right time for you. You can't just say its this day or that day...it has to be right for you. Check out this article for some more ideas: http://www.singleswarehouse.co.uk/2012/12/slept-with-him-too-soon-heres-what-you-do/

What I don't hear in this question is whether or not you WANT to have sex. Your feeling seem to be more about what you're "supposed" to do not what you WANT to do. For sex to be great it needs to be about your body and your feelings. A good rule of thumb is if you can't keep your hands off of the person and your fantasizing about being together sexually when you aren't around them-then you are ready!

Sex shouldn't be a game to keep the other person interested it should be about enhancing the connection and interest you already feel.

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