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He came back after the break what to do now?
I read an article about what to do when your boyfriend asks for a break and to have some space. I used that advice and left him alone for about 4 days before I recieved a late night text from him. It stated that those few days of not talking has taken a lot of stress off his shoulders, and that he was sorry that it had to come to this. But he still has so much to do and still has a lot going on for him with work all while trying to to keep me happy. He said thank you for giving him the space. The oddest part was him telling me that he still wanted me to be in his life, and that we just need to slow down.
What confuses me is that I dont know what to talk about with him. It wasnt the happy ending i was expecting where he would tell me how much he loves me and is happy to be talking to me again. Instead Im telling him how proud I am of his recent promotion at work.
Hes being very cold! Why does a guy tell you they want you to be in their life still but they act cold?! I told him thank you for eveything that youve done for me,and all I get back is a you dont have to thank me. How can I help him be stress free by not overreacting to his cold responses? I know his work is really getting to him but I have no idea as to how to help him be less stessed. And what does it mean to slow down?