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Do i stay or do i go?
My boyfriend(31 yrs old) and i have been living at his mothers house for the past two years now, and well we just had a baby boy. Well his mother and I don't get along. Why? I don't know but we don't. For the most part since i moved in she stopped doing grocery shopping, everything i bought she ate before we could even get to it. Whenever she seen me on the phone she would just start talking to me as if i was not even on the phone, to me that is just disrespectful. There's been times where i've heard her on the phone talking to his sister about me saying "I just want her to go, but i want him to stay"....it's just lots of things and I find myself very unhappy and stressed. When i bring it up to my boyfriend about moving which always ends up turning into an argument he says his plan is to save to buy a house when he finishes school which is in another two years. And that we argue so much why should we move not like things will get better but yet and still he knows the main problem is his mom and us being here and how when we move i'll just find something else to argue about. To me that sounds like his family is not worth it. I just don't know what to do because i want us to be all together but at the same time i find myself unhappy not persay with him but with our living situation. At the moment i'm not working so he sees it as i have no say. I was thinking once i do my taxes and find a job to get my own place and whenever he decided to get move out and want his family we'll be together but as far as being in his mothers house i cant do it anymore.