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Am I wrong for doing this?

Published on July 4, 2013 by rylinamy213

I have a baby with my bf of 1 year and some months. Known eachother going on 2 years. Before me he was in a relationship of 10 years, they had become pregnant but then she decided to terminate the pregnacy due to some selfish reason. She left my bf wanted nothing to do with him, since I became apart of his life I felt that I had to prove to his family that I am better I felt like they compared me and I always felt like I wasn't good enough cause I wasn't pretty like her or didn't dress and do make up like her. Or I wasn't as tiny as her, I felt that just cause I became pregnant with my daughter they had no choice but to deal with me. His family still has face to face contact with her as theo text messages and through social sites. My question is; is it wrong of me to refuse them from letting them see my daughter, cause I feel that it is disrespectful to me, him And my daughter?

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I would say no its your child. However maybe finding away to solve the situation overall. I.e. talking to your boyfriend about how you feel and why you feel like that and I know its hard but letting his family members know aswell it's difficult to do. I'm sure his family would like to spend time with their grandchild.

Unfortunately, cutting his family out of your daughter's life, as much as it would make you feel a little better, would just hurt them and your daughter in the long run. You need to be the bigger person and overlook their faux pas in treating you this way. It will benefit your daughter to have her family around, even if they don't embrace you the way they did your partner's pervious girlfriend. As long as they are good to your daughter, that's all that matters. Remember, be the bigger person. 

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