6 'Bad Girl' Sex Tips That Will Keep Him Satisfied FOR-EV-ER
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Only 10 years ago, if you wanted to learn how to be a bad girl, everyone you knew would judge the heck out of you. Thankfully, this dark age attitude is finally changing. So if you want to be a bit naughty these day, you just need to follow these 6 simple rules.
You'll notice that I saved the best tips for the end, where I go into specific detail on how to please a guy with oral sex and dirty talk.
1. You have a healthy attitude about sex.
Without a doubt, the most important aspect of learning how to be a bad girl is that you have a healthy attitude about sex. Those who are truly naughty don't hate sex, don't repress their feelings about sex, and certainly don't judge others for their sexual choices and desires.
As a result of having a healthy, open attitude about sex, you will quickly find that you want explore new aspects of your sexuality, whether that's with new people, new sexual positions or techniques, or even just new scenarios and fantasies. The really cool thing about having a healthy attitude towards sex is that you'll surprise yourself with what you try and what you enjoy in bed.
2. You take precautions.
I know that sometimes you may not want to feel like you are planning sex and that it just happened. I get it. But if you truly have a healthy attitude towards sex and are open about it, then you know that it's often likely to happen when you don't exactly expect it.
This is why you should always carry condoms with you when going out with friends or to meet a guy. On top of this, if you have multiple sexual partners, then you need to get tested regularly. Even if you always use condoms.
3. You try new things.
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The most important part about learning how to be dirtier is trying new things. Something I find kind of amusing is that many often interpret "trying new things" as simply sleeping with lots of different guys. It certainly can, but it doesn't have to.
Instead, you can learn to be a bad girl just for one guy by learning to try new things with only him. So, what kinds of new things should you be trying with your guy? Well if you're new to this, I always advise starting off with some new sex positions. New sex positions won't make for a crazy revolution in your sex life, but they are the perfect start and will help a ton for getting comfortable with your new sexy attitude.
4. You know how to give great oral sex.
Once you are comfortable with trying some new sexual positions with your man, it's time to take your sluttiness to a new level. It's time to learn how to give him a great blow job.
- Be enthusiastic. You shouldn't meekly and quietly start giving him oral sex. He needs to see the passion and fire in your eyes as you go down and go to town on him.
- Try various techniques. If you haven't given many blow jobs before, then you may not be totally comfortable with giving one to your man. If this is the case, then you may have defaulted to the traditional "in and out" motion, where you simply move your head up and down. This is absolutely fine, but there is a lot more to giving great oral sex than doing just this. You can lick, kiss, suck, blow, tease, tickle, caress and massage him using your tongue and fingers.
5. You talk dirty.
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One of the trademarks of bad girl behavior is obviously talking dirty. You may have seen a few ridiculous porn movies where the starlet is screaming profanities at a guy to try and turn him on. This definitely works in some cases, but there is a whole lot more to talking dirty if you want to act sexy.
You can be much more discreet and subtle with your dirty talk, and it will still have the same effect on your man. So instead of shouting the nastiest thing you can think of at him, try whispering in his ear. Say something like, "I just want to get out of here" or, "I wish there was no one else here and we could just focus on each other, if you know what I mean."
Both of these dirty talking examples are super-easy and not as direct. On top of being easy, they are also quite a bit more powerful, as they will have your man in a constant state of anticipation until you act on what you said.
6. You dress to impress.
A big part of learning how to be a bad girl is dressing sexy. You probably already have a good idea of what you should wear to be hot for your man:
- When it comes to clothes, less is more.
- The more skin you show, the better.
- Heels work well.
- Wear makeup that gets attention.
The one thing I want to add to this is, wear something that your man (or men) associates with slutty behavior. Your guy may associate this with cheerleaders, strippers or cocktail waitresses. The list is endless and depends on your man's particular tastes.
The important thing is to exploit it. So wear a skirt that looks like a cheerleader's skirt, or clear plastic heels, or a short sexy dress if you want to look like a cheerleader, stripper or cocktail waitress.
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If you enjoyed learning how to be slutty for your man, but want to take things to the next level, you will find everything you need to know on the Bad Girl's Bible site. You'll find tips on better oral sex, every sex position known to man (with professional photographs), sex tips, and examples on talking dirty to your man.