Why Your Heart Was Wrong For Loving Him, By Venus Zodiac Sign
What is your heart telling you about him?
pexels We all make mistakes in life. Unfortunately, we don’t always get a second chance, especially in love.
Think about the last person who let you go.
Even if you still have some residual feelings for your ex, there’s probably also some part of you that wants them to know that they made a huge mistake by letting you go.
If it’s easy to imagine that happening to you, then understanding how hard and confusing it may be for you to come back to the one you let go and tell them the same thing.
Even if you feel strongly about your ex, there are some things you have to consider before asking him to take you back.
For one, understand where your feelings are coming from.
You may feel like your heart was wrong for letting him go, but do you actually miss him or do you just miss being in a relationship?
Additionally, is it his love you’re missing or is it just lust?
Neither of these questions may be easy for you to answer right away.
So, when you first realize that you may have made a mistake letting him go, give yourself some time to really mull over what’s going on inside that head and heart of yours before making a move.
Another you have to consider is that you may feel like you made a wrong choice in letting him go, but he may not feel the same way.
So, if you’re considering taking him back, just know that your feelings may not be reciprocated. I know, I know.
No one wants to be reminded of what can go wrong when you try to get back with an ex, but it is an all-too-real thing that can happen.
But at the end of the day, your heart is wiser than you think it is. You may not always treat it the best, and there may be times when it’s more honest with you than you’d like, but your heart knows best.
If in your heart, you feel like you made a mistake when you let him go, then it’s always worth it to explore those renewed feelings and try again.
We may not always get a second chance in life, especially in love, but it’s always better to try and fail than to always be left wondering what could have happened.
Here is why your heart was wrong about him (and how to deal with it)byVenus zodiac sign.
ARIES (March 21 - April 19)
As a fiery and somewhat over-enthusiastic zodiac sign, Aries, you are ready to jump feet first into a new relationship, even though most people need time to let their feelings for someone to flourish.
Not you, though. Once you realize you have feelings for someone, you burn bright and fast for them. The reason you’re starting to feel like your heart was wrong about him is because you didn’t give him a chance to warm up to the relationship.
Rather than let him do things on his own time, it’s very possible that you rushed him into the relationship and pushed him away. Maybe it’s time to give him a second chance!
TAURUS (April 20 - May 20)
The standard relationship ritual is super important to you, Taurus: making things official, meeting each other’s families, moving in together, talking about your future together, and all that.
While you can be patient with your S.O., you believe in getting things done on a specific timeline.
The reason you’re starting to feel like your heart was wrong about him is because you convinced yourself that you were at different points in your life.
You didn’t consider the fact that he might not have been emotionally ready to take things to the next level when you were, so you ended it.
But if you can’t stop thinking about him, there’s a good chance you still have feelings for him.
GEMINI (May 21 - June 20)
One of the main reasons you like keeping things casual when it comes to relationships, Gemini, is because you always find something wonderful and admirable in everyone you meet.
How are you supposed to choose just one person to date?! When you do find someone you really care about, it can certainly be a new feeling for you.
The reason you’re starting to feel like your heart was wrong about him is because you were scared to make things exclusive with one person.
What if your feelings changed? What if it just didn’t work out? Now that you’ve been away from him, you realize that all of your worries don’t matter, only being with him does.
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CANCER (June 21 - July 22)
When you first start a new relationship, you can be very reserved, Cancer.
This is your time to really get a feel for the relationship and make sure that this is someone you really want to be with. Once you warm up to your S.O., you are full of love and affection.
The reason you’re starting to feel like your heart was wrong about him is because you were afraid to risk heartbreak for a chance at true love.
When a relationship is getting serious, there’s a time when you need to take things to the next level. It can be scary, but it’s important if you love him.
You’re now only just realizing that you were wrong to let him go and that you do love him.
LEO (July 23 - August 22)
One of your “must-haves” in a relationship, Leo, is enough affection and attention to last a lifetime. It’s very important that your S.O. is vocal about how he feels about you.
You can’t help wanting a fiercely romantic relationship – even if you can be a bit demanding about it.
The reason you’re starting to feel like your heart was wrong about him is because you felt ignored, but in reality, your needs were a bit one-sided.
There’s nothing wrong with wanting certain things in your relationship, but you have to be willing to reciprocate, too. Now that you know better, you’re willing to see if he wants to give it another shot with you.
VIRGO (August 23 - September 22)
Virgo, your ideal relationship is one that is built on a deeply intellectual connection with your S.O. It’s also one where your S.O. can read your mind and know exactly what you want from him… we can dream, right? It, unfortunately, doesn’t always happen that way.
The reason you’re starting to feel like your heart was wrong about him is because your perfectionism made your standards too high (even for you).
You were asking for too much of your S.O., too soon. If you could do it all over again, you’d be a better communicator about what you both wanted. Maybe you CAN have a second chance...
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LIBRA (September 23 - October 22)
One thing you want most from your relationship, Libra, is endless love and affection from your S.O. There’s just something so honest about being romantic with the one you’re with that you love. Of course, a relationship needs more than hugs and kisses for it to last.
The reason you’re starting to feel like your heart was wrong about him is because you didn’t let yourself get into the nitty-gritty of a real relationship.
You were too quick to brush anything that made you uncomfortable under the rug instead of confronting it. It’s okay to be scared, but don’t let it ruin your relationship before it has a chance to get started.
SCORPIO (October 23 - November 21)
Totally opening up in a relationship with no reservations is something that takes you a lot of time to get comfortable with, Scorpio.
It IS possible, but you have to know that you are in a safe space to really be vulnerable and let yourself be yourself around your S.O. There has been a lot of trying and failing in your past.
The reason you’re starting to feel like your heart was wrong about him is because you were too quick to judge something insignificant.
You can’t call it quits every time you get nervous or scared, Scorpio. If you want to make it last with him, you have to learn how to speak up when it counts, not keep it to yourself.
SAGITTARIUS (November 22 - December 21)
You like to love without limits, Sagittarius, which usually means that you don’t like to restrict yourself to one person or one relationship.
It is possible for you to find someone you’d like to be exclusive with, but it doesn’t happen often. Being so quick to let him know the rules of your feelings for him only makes him feel like he’ll never get close enough to you.
The reason you’re starting to feel like your heart was wrong about him is because you’re not used to wanting something serious with someone.
Your feelings for him are totally different from anything else you’ve had for someone, and you’re starting to feel restricted. Just breathe, and remember that you can do everything in your own time, there’s no rush.
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CAPRICORN (December 22 - January 19)
The main thing that turns you on in a relationship is having an S.O. that is as ready for an investment in love as you are, Capricorn.
Knowing that you don’t have to keep looking back to make sure that he’s keeping up with you is not something you take lightly. Of course, not everyone is as intense as you are all the time.
The reason you’re starting to feel like your heart was wrong about him is because you didn't think he was taking the relationship as seriously as you were.
You were quick to judge how invested he was, simply because he didn’t have the same amount of enthusiasm as you.
People can be totally into a relationship and not have to reassure you at every turn.
AQUARIUS (January 20 - February 18)
One thing you definitely are not, Aquarius, is very emotional. Even when you’re head over heels for someone, you can still seem slightly disinterested. Only the people who know you best know exactly what you look like when you’re in love.
Everyone else? They need a quick refresher on how to know if you’re into them or not.
The reason you’re starting to feel like your heart was wrong about him is because you’re not used to talking about your feelings so candidly. It almost feels like you’re someone you’re not, but you don’t want to let your emotional unavailability get in the way of something beautiful.
Take baby steps rather than giant ones to let him know you love him but need time to open up fully.
PISCES (February 19 - March 20)
You have a lot of love in your heart, Pisces, but you need time for that love to really evolve. As the two opposing fish of the zodiac, you can love extremely hard and push people away, all at one time. Don’t let your commitment issues – or fear of committing “wrong” – get you down.
The reason you’re starting to feel like your heart was wrong about him is because you run hot and cold. It’s one thing to be able to accept this and work through your reservations with your S.O. and another to let it rule all of your relationships.
It’s okay to get cold feet, just don’t let it come between you and someone you really care about – you’re a team, after all.
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