But, who cares? Marriage in not a goal in this 22nd century life. Get a grip! the money making is the important thing! having a lover is good but the skill of being abl to have a string of lovers is far better then they don't get in your way.
When you can have the bull and the calf then why waste time slowing your financial future?
That is what boytoys are for!
It depends on how old you guys are, but if he have not mentioned and he is over 25 he already knows rather he want to marry you or not. Finding out is the hard part, but if he talks about your future together, you have met his parents and close friends is a good sign. One thing I notice women don't do is let a man knows what they expect and if you expect to get married and you're not going to wait around for years, its best he knows this. Hiding is what we do, but if you been dating for a year do not be scared to discuss this. You can let him know by telling him, you have never believed in just dating for fun, but if you are dating someone you are looking at him as a potential marriage mate and if its not the case you rather not be in the relationship. You have to start talking to him about it w/o being embarrassed and let him know you do not wish to make him do something he do not want to do, "but honestly I can see being with you, can you see being with me?" questions like that will help get conversations started and don't be scared to know the answer.








