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I met this guy a few months ago and we hit it off quickly. We started dating after a month of being close associates and things were going great. Then, on our six month anniversary we had sex. It was definitely different but Im not very experienced as I had only been with my ex-fiance. His penis was much smaller than my ex's but I tried not to let it bother me as he was a gentleman and made sure I finished first. However, a week later my good friend and I were shopping on Main and we run into him....and his wife and his children.
I was devastated because not only had he lied to me about his age and his entire life, but he IS married. He introduced me to his wife and children as his "little sister" from a mentoring program. I guess it's believable since many people think I'm 12 or 15 and never my real age. His wife was so warm and accepting of me. She even invited me to come to their house to spend time with the "family." I was so heartbroken, not for me, but for her. My heart seriously ached for her that I hugged her like we were long lost buddies just reunited after ten years.
Afterwards, I began to tell my friend about the entire situation because she was just as surprised about the entire situation as I was. He calls about two hours later and starts saying that it's not what it looks like and that he and his wife are getting a divorce. It didn't look that way to me but he insisted. However, I told him to go jump into a sea infested with aids and sharks and he continue to beg and plea. I disconnected the call and blocked his number. I asked my friend to stay with me because I didn't want to be alone for the night. He comes over and tries to plea his case. I told him that I wanted nothing to do with him and that if he didn't leave me alone I would tell his wife of our relationship that was all a lie.
Now, I just got my results back from the doctors and I'm almost 4 months pregnant. I know he has a right to know but I feel terrible for the wife in this entire situation.
He's a pathological liar and he will probably just deny my child and I don't want to go through the drama.
Should I tell him or should I just raise my child without him?