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Should I say goodbye to sexual pleasures?

Published on January 22, 2013 by barribow

Hi,

I have a girlfriend that is very conservative. She is very good looking and she really loves me like no one else before did. She is very loyal and polite too. I also love her and care about her.

But, since she is very conservative we never had any sexual experience and also I never had any imagination or fantasy about her (I have had with other people though).

If I want to continue with her I have to marry her but I am afraid should I say goodbye to any sexual pleasures that I have wished in my life?

How much should I emphasis on this part?

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On January 24, 2013, tanstaafl2 said:

As conservative as I am in most everything else, I do not think it wise to wait until marriage to have sex with someone. With the critical importance of physical intimacy in a happy and satisfying marriage, it really makes sense to "try before you buy" (to put it crudely) - see if your sexual desires and appetites are compatible before you commit to spening the rest of your life with a person.

Do NOT marry her if sex isn't good with her. Do NOT assume she will do things after marriage that she won't do now (VERY unlikely - more likely is that she'll STOP doing some things once you get married).

Q: Why does a bride always smile on her wedding day? A: Because she knows she's given her last blowjob.

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