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My husband, Craig's list, and a failing marriage

Published on January 25, 2013 by lotuslindsey

My husband and I have been married 1 1/2 years. I caught him looking at intimate encounters on Craig's list when I was 8 months pregnant, forgave him, then a year later he did it again, but replied to 3 different women saying they were MILFS and needed a hot young stud. Now this really shocked me because our daughter is 11 1/2 months old and I weight 117 and look like Ann Hathaway. I don't know why he is doing this, and he says he doesn't know either, but loves me with all his heart. What is going on?

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On February 2, 2013, tanstaafl2 said:

His actions are speaking louder than his words (and giving an entirely different message). Get into some couples marital counseling. If he doesn't know why he's doing this, and can't fight the urge, he may have an addiction (sort of like having a porn addiction) and needs the appropriate treatment and support for kicking an addiction.

If he can't or won't do this, save both you and your daughter years of anguish, and kick him out.

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