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How to prevent yourself from being too attached?

Published on December 8, 2012 by qrishamora

Hello readers.

Right now im at the stage where im trying to find the reason why i felt this way. The feeling of when your close friend suddenly left you behind and right now shes having a good time wih her new friends. sometimes I even put the blame on myself. Am I being too attached or in other word, clingy? If so, what should I do to get over it?

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If she was the only outlet for your social life, then this is a big mistake. Join a co-ed sports team. Take up a new hobby. Take dancing lessons, cooking lessons, etc. Join a meetups.com group. Don't make one person the center of your universe, which means either your boyfriend or friend. Always have an interesting life besides doing things with only one person. It's too much pressure for that person if you always rely on only them for your social life.

I am so sorry that this is happening. I know how hard it can feel to lose an important connection like this. It can feel every bit as awful as breaking up with a guy. I encourage you to give yourself space to grieve the loss of the friendship because you are going through a loss and you're not just supposed to "get over it." I encourage you to do some journaling and ask yourself if you were too clingy or insecure. Maybe you were being codependent with this friend. You might want to go online and look up the characteristics of someone who is codependent. As a dating and relationship coach, I run into this a lot with my clients, especially those who have been raised families where one or both parents have addiction problems. For more information, you can visit my website, www.LisaShield.com or book a free sample session with me.

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