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Here we go.. Do you think I'm a slut?

Published on May 21, 2011 by damm143

Well I'm 15 and I had sex with 6 different guys but multiple times. 5 non boyfriends and only 1 boyfriend. I lost my virginity at 14 in September 6 2010 , and I been with 6 guys sense then. I regret everyone one of the guys that I was not in a relationship with. I do it to feel wanted and liked by others. My whole life I been abused but never raped. It was by friends.! So I felt like trash, my family treats me like I'm dirt. And I'm always getting picked on for my size and what I look like. I'm highly depressed and I don't know what to do anymore. Please don't lecture me or say anything rude, iv tried almost everything to make me feel better and not do stupid things I been doing. But do you think I'm a slut?

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I think you're asking the wrong question. You seem like you're asking for help rather than wondering if you're a slut or not. And please don't refer to yourself that way. Slut is such a derogatory term, and it's meant to hurt and insult women. So, don't even question it. You cannot change what you have done in the past, but you can certainly change your future.

It sounds like you already know the root of your problems, and you just need help. There has to be someone in your life whom you can trust and confide in- a teacher, a counselor, an aunt/uncle, or a friend's parent. Just find someone you can comfortably discuss your problems with and possibly get you the help you need.

Dear Damm143, I think the word Slut needs to be removed from the dictionary and general use. It is just a silly derogatory word aimed at girls for doing what boys do and get cheered for. So, now we have the dumb word out of the way. You say they pick on you because of your size. Are you big or small? What is it especially you think they think you look like? Are the looks physical, or the way you dress and present yourself? If it is your image then that is very easy to fix.

I'm what ppl call big, but my parents say I'm just at that stage. I get told I'm just thick and not fat. And ppl tell me I look like a man, idk how I do ? I do my hair everyday I do everything a girl does. And yeah people tKe me for the way I dress and how I look, if I'm not skinny I'm ugly if I'm fat I'm never going to fit in and I'm still ugly. But if I'm skinny I'm everything a guy would want Nd I would fit in.

Im really asking for both. But I can't talkto anyone, the ppl I told stuff to posted it on fb Nd then others threw it in my face. Nd the one person who I told everything to and he always kept it a secret was my cousin. But he was murderd on may 2 of this year. :( now I have no one.

About the boys, it seems you must be making it easy for them, but believe me it doesn't make them like you. They may call you when they want to play, but not for a chat. Try to get yourself wanted for other reasons.

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